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41-50,
*dogg
writes:my girlfreind clams that i took her virginity but her diary say different and she also lived with a guy for a year in a one bedroom apt before we met. at first she told me that she was with 8 people before we met but when i flip out about it she changed it to being a vergin and i was the one who took it what should i do or think its driving me crazy i just want her to tell me the truth Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2008): And now, the fact that you've been lied to is hurting you more than the truth would have hurt in the first place.
This is what is so hard to get across, isn't it?
You're a man, and men have to know whether their partners are faithful or they don't know whose kids they are raising. It's natural that being lied to about her sexual life is bothering the hell out of you. Nature at work.
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (6 July 2008):
 Why would you read her diary? That's a NO, sweetie!
She probably told you, you were her first to make you feel better! Not for you to mistrust her and snoop around in her things!
Obviously, you're very jealous of her past but I don't think you should be flipping out and holding that against her!
No one likes an insecure boyfriend, you better see if you two can work it out- meaning, you need to get over whatever issues you have or there is no chance for you two at all!
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (6 July 2008):
 It sounds like she owuld be better off without you!
No one can help their past, you flip out at her for her sexual past?? No wonder she lied to you, I would have done!
And snooping in her diary...?! A definate no no!
You want her to tell you the truth when you're obviously very jealous and insecure and can't handle the truth?
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