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*asquerade711
writes:Hello everyone.Just wondering if I could get a few opinions from some of you. My boyfriend and I have been hitting a little bit of a rough patch lately. When we first started dating, we saw each other very often, text messaged every day, numerous times a day. Now all of a sudden, since we've been dating awhile, the text messages have declined considerably, and I'm lucky if we see each other once every few days or so. A lot of people have already said that perhaps the honeymoon is over, so to speak, but I'm wondering if it runs deeper than that. The decline in time spent together and contact made throughout the day is so extreme that I'm getting nervous, and yes, suspicious.Any insight you could offer would be greatly appreciated.masq
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Sorry to hear that.
He was like a shooting star.
You will survive and live to fight another day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Sorry to hear that to.
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reader, masquerade711 +, writes (1 April 2008):
masquerade711 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, thank you, everyone, for the great advice. Unfortunately, we have split up. Needless to say, I'm wrecked, but I will heal.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (1 April 2008):
Your relationship is like a pendulum.
It swings from the extreme left to the extreme right.
If it swings back , you will be O.K
If it does not then your clock is broken.
Drop some oil and make it tick - tock in regular beats.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Things in life change. We maybe called elsewhere, such as family and work. It happens in marriages.
The only way you will know for sure, is to talk to him. Find out what is going on in his life, if he is busy. You can say you miss not seeing him as much. If there are any problems, then they should be discussed, avoiding critizsim or negative feedback, but caring, acceptance and understanding. Maybe there is something you can help him with that would free up some of his time.
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