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writes:We dated for six months and she ended up dumping me over the phone 5 minutes before I had to be at work with no reason. It was over a year ago this happened but i've always wondered why. We only talked for about a week after this and I asked her why and she didn't really give me a clear answer. All she said was "its not you, its me." I've always wondered why she dumped me becuase maybe the reason could help me in the future for someone else.During those six months we never argued about anything (which some people ive talked to about this says that is really weird). We never did have sex or anything like that so its not like I was trying to force her into anything she didn't want to do.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (1 April 2008):
I know how it feels for someone to dump you and not really give you a proper reason. It can be very frustrating! You just keep asking yourself why, why, why. Sadly, sometimes we will never really know the real reason. I dont think I can say why she did it, as I dont know her, you or really much about your relationship. Perhaps you could try talking to her and just explain that its important for you to know why and ask her why. The line 'its not you, its me' is very broad and sometimes people say it to cover up the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Just look on it as a lucky escape mate, if she could do that to you then what else would she of done in the future. There is nothing stranger than folk my dad used to say and it is so strange. You will never know, just move on and you will meet someone you so rightly deserve.
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