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Long Distance Relationship - Help Please

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Question - (1 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 April 2008)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear all,

I've known a girl for close to a year but because we live in different countries, the relationship has been maintained over the Internet. We will be in the same country in a few months time and that's what we've been planning for.

We've met physically twice (I flew over once during our school vacation) and it was a nice experience (no sex).

We talk almost daily but I'm starting to find that I'm NOT happy in this relationship at all. It's a nagging feeling that has been sticking with me for almost 2 months. It seems that she's not the type of girl that I am looking for to marry but at the same time, I'm afraid to let go off her because I'm not sure if I should.

We know each other pretty well and we share what goes on in our lives with each other. She told me she enjoys telling me about what she does everyday although we get into arguments sometimes.

I treat her nicely and sweetly but in return she treats me VERY horribly. She was much sweeter to me when we first met.

Alot of other women are attracted to me but I've not done much on my part. I really am not sure what to do with this. We're not even boy-girlfriends although she says we're seeing each other.

Any advice? Please help.. Thanks..

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A female reader, MissDiva77 United States +, writes (1 April 2008):

Well I completly understand where you are coming from just explain to her how you really feel and see how she takes it

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