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writes:How can I flirt, I know about smiling but that is useless because i smile at everyone. I am in a wheelchair so I can't stand up and lie near guys or sit on their knee.How else can I flirt?
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (1 April 2008):
 A look from the lower angle always helps. Tilt your head down slightly and look up at him. That's a good one. Keep eye contact, show your emotions through your eyes. It shows that you aren't afraid to be yourself. Play around with your hair a lot. I don't know why people do this, but it works. Also, place a hand on his arm or shoulder or thigh or something. Touch him in some way.
Smile a lot at him. This isn't necessarily flirting, but it's a nice thing to do. Shows that you aren't afraid to be friendly. Smile at him and he's bound to smile back.
Wishing you the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): I would say playing with your hair (like twisting it round your finger) and eye contact are good flirting tips but sweetie honestly at the end of the day none of that matters, if you can get into a converstaion with someone that you like, allow your personality to shine through - for a lot of people this is the selling feature. My cousins in a wheelchair and she has had more boyfriends than me so shes either better at the art of flirting or has a much bigger personality than me!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Can you move your arms and hands? You could stroke your hair slowly and gently when you're taking to a fellow you like. Brushing your hand slowly back and forth along your collarbone looks sexy too. Put on some lipgloss, taking your time to do it very carefully...
Gently touching his hands, stroking them, putting your hand on his hip or thigh or knee...
Just some thoughts.
Laugh at his jokes, make eye contact, dipping your head a bit so you're kind of looking at him through your eyelashes...
Well, that's a start anyway! Good luck!
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reader, Susan Strict +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Use your eyes. Look straight at his face until you have his attention, then let your eyes wander... and pause when you're looking at straight at what you want him to know you're looking at. Of course, which part of him you decide to make it clear you're staring at is entirely up to you - you might not want to make it TOO obvious too soon, if you see what I mean. A subtle approach is likely to be far more effective, but the idea is to get his attention and make it absolutely clear you like what you're looking at without ever needing to say a word.Take it one step further, if you're daring enough. When you know you have his attention and he can see you are giving your full attention to him, lick your lips - just a little; not "suggestively". Or even just open your lips a very little.Try it!
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