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writes:hey again you guys have been so much help to me..well here i am writting againi have so much things on my mind right about nowi want to date and have a bf..but the embarassing secret is thati only had 2 boyfriends throughout my whole entire life..and im 15 years old..is that a bad thing?well sometimes i think its because im ugly or not any boy's type you know?i really wanna get a boyfriend all my friends are dating and its just so fustrating seeing them date and break up and date againi know that im pretty..because i look in the mirror everyday but its like im just not ment for dating..if i was i wouldnt probably have 10 boyfriends alreadywell anyways what do i do?i just wanna have a boyfriend i know that i cant just wake up one morning and be like omg i have a boyfriend..but should i worry or not?pls awnser with honesty..im a sweetheart who doesnt understand..a bit confused Reply to this Question
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reader, xoAngiieox +, writes (17 May 2008):
xoAngiieox is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thnx Everyone
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Hey! I'm the same age - and I've NEVER had a bf!!!
So you don't have anything to worry about!!
Have you found anyone in particular who you'd like to go out with - because that's different to just wanting a boyfriend for the sake of it. You need to find someone who you really care about and who really cares about you. Maybe when you find that person you could take charge and sort things out!
You don't need to rush into relationships no matter how tempting it may seem! Don't worry about it - enjoy your life and the right person will come when you least expect it! x x x
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reader, Shamandalie  +, writes (1 April 2008):
You're very young. You shouldn't worry about it. I never had a boyfriend till I was 23!! I don't mean it's good to wait so long (the lack of younger, less mature relationships has caused me a lot of problems) but you said you've had 2 bfs already, so you're not exactly unexperienced.At your age you should concentrate on having fun regardless you have a boyfriend or not. I know a girl (she's 31 now) who was in a relationship from her 15th birthday until very recently. She broke up after 15 years and now tells me that she wishes she had done a lot of things she couldn't do because she was in such a serious relationship (the guy was 5 years older than her). I say you go, have fun, do what you like, and who knows? Maybe a nice looking gentleman might come your way.
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reader, KeRrI117  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 no of course you shouldnt worry about it wen you find a boy you like just flirt a little but dont come on tooo strong therwise you could just scare him. Everyone is meant for dating wether u no it or not hun but sometimes people sense things like that you could be tense around them. All i can say is if you find a boy you like dont tell people you like him just keep it to yourself and see how it ends. GOOD LUCK sweet
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