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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do you talk to guys you like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - I have had a crush on this guy for several years but i'm kind of shy. Me and him are sort of friends but we don't talk to each other often. a few weeks ago he started texting me after he broke up with his girlfriend and we hung out once or twice ...

Is he putting his son's needs or her needs before mine?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Would love opinions on this. When dating a man with a child and exwife, is it wrong for my feelings to be taken into consideration too? I would never keep someone away from their child, in this case a teenager (they share custody). My proble...

If she's home alone I think she's cheating, if I hear guys around her I think she's cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - I always think my girl is cheating we haven't been together that long. she always talking about what side conversation her and her boss have like ( her being bet to run in the rain for extra money because they're bored at work). I knew her before we ...

His post-steroid mood changes are getting to be ridiculous!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend does steroids and he has constant mood changes, they never end. (i didnt know until we had been dating for about 5 months) He just ended a cycle and its slowly getting worse. Can anyone give me advice? He has constant mood changes and ...

My boyfriend is bringing back my feelings of inferiority toward other women!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - I can tell that my boyfriend likes pretty girls. Even though when he's with me, I caught him having a string of messages with a girl whom he told me often that she's good-looking. And he admits that she's got very good complexion and looks amazing. ...

I just want women to like me for who I am and hate the idea of having to fake a new personality to become attractive.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - Hey guys. I'm a 17 year old boy and I'm in my last year of college. Being completely brutal here I am not great looking and I am about 12.5 stone at 5'11'' so I have some work to do on that front. I've been told by mates that I have a great ...

I invited my crush to my party, but am afraid my friends will make me look bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Well I have a little predicament and need some advice! I'm having a Halloween party in a few weeks and somehow got up the guts to ask my crush (as well as some other friends) from church. Now, I've also invited people that are more of a partying ...

Do I tell new boyfriends about my past as an abuser?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Should I tell my future boyfriends about my abusive past? This might be a bit long, but I want to be completely honest here. To give some more information, about 4-5 years ago I was in a relationship where I abused the man I was with, both physi...

Is it better to continue with this and see where it goes, or is this something I should stay away from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - I have found an amazing gal, she has been out of a relationship for one year. Her relationship was controling and abusive. We have only know each other for a couple of weeks, and i know it is short, but she tells me she does not want anything ...

How do I start talking to the younger girl I like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - How to start talking with this girl, shes 14 and damn beautiful i am a highschool student shes always with her freinds i know i can win her over if she becomes my friend but dont have the daring to talk to her have never talked with her till date ...

I know I don't have much of a chance but is there anything I can do to win her over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - I am deeply in love with her for past 2 years,i proposed her many times like a jerk that was a mistake i made, now not in contact with her for 3 months,she's least interested in talking to me and she finds me irritating,i am still in love with her, ...

Is this evidence of palpable emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - when a man and a woman who know each other for many yrs and rarely talk, when the have a nervous conversation, could this be evidence of palpable emotions? the man would ask the woman "how are you?" the woman would say "i am ok under the ...

I'm in love with my best friend and it's complicated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - A couple months ago, I finally told my female best friend that I've had feelings for her for 3 years. She is also lesbian, but she admitted that likes someone she'll never get (another married woman who's 10 years older than we are) and she can't ...

I keep having dreams about a girl.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4416 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - I think I'm in love with this girl because I saw her at a store the other day and my heart started pounding really fast, I got light headed, I was weak in the knees, and I got dizzy. Here's the catch: she's my best friend's sister. Let's call my ...

The girl I want to date says I have to surprise her! How do I do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - Hi everyone from Dear Cupid... I am going to take this girl out on a date pretty soon, I really like her and she feels the same but she said I'll just have to surprise her first and then we'll see what's good. So I need help and input on where I...

I told my b/f I thought I was falling in love with him and things haven't been the same since!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - I’m twenty and my current boyfriend is twenty-one. We are both full time college students with part time (12-15hrs) jobs. We live in the same dorm. We have been dating for almost six months with a weeklong break up during that time period. Because I ...

She's leaving in a week! How do I express my feelings for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - I have been working with a woman for almost three years now. Since I first met her, I have always had a thing for her. I've asked her out on a few occasions, none of which being successful, but we get along well and it's at the point where I could ...

Did she think I was going to ask her out and that's why she said she had to get off the phone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - "I gtg my mum is calling. . . nice chatting with you" Is this a standard polite way to brush someone off the phone? Theres this girl I met a couple of mths ago but only really started talking to her on fb two weeks back. I've had a 2 hr conv...

I'm 22 and my girlfriend's 25. Is that a big difference?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (M) - Is this weird? My girlfriend is 3 years older than me. I'm 22 and she's 25. Is that a big difference or no? We have a good relationship and all (sex is great :P) but compared to all of my friends in relationships, the guy is older than the girl. ...

Feeling like I'm going in circles...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend want's me to spend the nite all the time now that's great but I can't and everytime I tell him why he thinks i'm lying. It's always the same fight why don't you spend the nite more or hang out. I work all kinds of strange hours and I'm ...

Could he be a cheater? Girls love him. I don't want to be played again by a guy. Am I worrying too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been very suspicious of my boyfriend for cheating on me. I'm really worried because I really..well love him. And he's not the cheating type but most girls like him. (Not kidding!!) so he could cheat if he wanted too. I'm not the pretties...

About Facebook and relationships

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - While generally facebook is considered a fun way to keep in touch with friends and share photos, it can be a huge source of turmoil in a relationship. If I had a dime for every time I read "I'm worried because I saw something on her/his facebook..." ...

My B/f was aroused, but couldn't climax. Could it have been due to stress, or am I just not good enough for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hia Today I found myself in a situation I've never been in before, and I was just wondering if anyone here could advise me on it :) I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year, and we've been sexually active for a while now. Today when thing...

How I can keep my emotions stable? I don't want to be a nagging girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year, I'm 18 and he is 17, and we are one of those couples that everyone says 'wow those two are made for each other', which we are, I'm not being young or naive, we are two really good people for each ...

Dad is critical of him. I like this guy. But am I falling in love too fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4504 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Hey folks, It's been about 4 months since I broke up with my ex, and now I've found a good guy. We met online, and began talking quite a bit. We got together, and since then he's asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes, and its been a lot...

Does he like me... Do you think he'll say yes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4591 days ago

12 October 2011 (F) - Alright so there is this guy that I really like and I have known him for over two years. Recently we have gotten really close. Closer than we have ever been. Slowly I started to like him and I've been wondering if he feels the same. My friend a...