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Dating: Help and advice

I'm worried about how I will handle my first relationship. Can anyone give me any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi. Okay, so I'm sixteen and I've never had an actual relationship before. Like, I've liked a guy and they've liked me back but its never gone as far as that, kinda like a 'flirtationship'. I'm scared that when i eventually get into a relation...

He says he is over his love who died 8 years ago but I don't trust him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi.. whoever is reading this I do hope I can get some good advice or some kind of understanding as to why I feel the way I'm feeling at the moment! I met a wonderful Man back in July 11 -still together.He has not had any sort of relationship in the ...

I'm very attached to him, but I find him boring!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Help. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. Well first off, I love him, i'm very attached to him, I think about him all the time. And when he's gone I miss him so much. At the same time though, i'm bored with him, the sex is good, but t...

What do you get for the guy who has everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - What do you get for a man who has everything? My boyfriend is a farmer and a mechanic and its his birhtday soon but he says he has everything but what is a good gift for a guy...

Date Function 101 for a college senior

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - Hey guys, I am a senior in college but have never been on a date function. I have the opportunity to attend one this this weekend. There is this girl that I really like but we have never talked. She is in a different major but we have close mutua...

I didn't want to get serious because my heart was still broken, should I still go out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I am quite confused. I will start from the begining. I was happily in love with my boyfriend (now my ex boyfriend, who a few weeks ago just under a month ago to be precised. I knew something was wrong because he was not texting me as much he didnt ...

I met him on a trip, but after we got home he became distant. What happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I met a guy while working in Alaska this summer. He'd been there for about 6 months and I was scheduled to be there for two. It was a really great opportunity for me to get out of my home town and away from all these people that I didn't like and ...

What's a good idea for his birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend's birthday is next month and I'm at a loss when it comes to his gift. We've been together for a year and a half, and on his last birthday, I got him a bottle of cologne, a dress shirt, a nice sweater, a pilsner glass w/his favorite MLB ...

What's something really sexy I can do for his birthday?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, my boyfriend's birthday is coming up. i've already bought the first part of his present. aaand of course, the other part of his present will probably be somewhere along the lines of birthday sex. the thing is, i want to come up ...

She's the girl of my dreams but she wants space.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - Hello, I have been in a fairly good relationship for almost 5 years now, I love my girlfriend so much but she doesn't seem to appreciate it, lately things have started to go downhill, its been over 5 weeks since we have been intimate, we have had no ...

Is it bad to feel jealous of the excitement of a new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 months, we both love and respect each other, I want to spend all my time with him and I know he feels the same way. However, recently my best friend from university met someone on holiday. I lived with her ...

Stuck between my ex and two other guys. How do I proceed from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - hey, right this might be abit confussing so sorry in advance. before i met my ex i signed up to this dating site, i admit i didnt want nothing from it just one of the girls was on about it so i thought id give it ago. through this site i met ...

Living together vs. the FIOS contract

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, How would you take this comment? Dating exclusively 11 mos, we're seeing each other 4-5 nights a wk (includes sleeping over), we're had a couple of vacations together but talk of the future has been minuscule other...

An older guy w/ two teen boys is flirting! Then his elder son did it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hola! Yes, I'm learning spanish! Okay enough funny talk here's the question. Should an older guy w/ two teenage boys be winking and smiling and flirting at me? That happened when I went out o eat at a Chinese restaurant last friday. Then lat...

He stayed over and nothing happened, then I never heard from him. Did I scare him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I have been separated for 1.5 years and did not date at all. I recently met a guy through mutual friends and we hit it off. He is very old fashioned and very scared to get hurt. He has not been in a relationship for over 8 years. We do not get to ...

Is my B/f telling me the truth when he says he calls his ex "darling" more out of habit that feelings for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now. He was previously married for 20 years and has 2 children from this relationship. We were invited to his daughter's birthday party which I was ok (within reason)to go to. I knew when I got together with ...

Why would she delete that other guy's comment from her Facebook wall? What could she be up to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - A girl I met recently added me to Facebook and we had a 2-3 hr conversation on fb. I've met her a couple of times and both times she was very nice and laughed at all my jokes and all that usual stuff. On the second time I met her I even touched her ...

How do I get closer to the girl I love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4529 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - ok im a 17 yrs old boy and i love a girl who is my neighbour.i dont know her name nor have i ever talked to her.for her education she lives at anither town and is back for her vacations so she is here right now and i dont know what to do......should ...

I'm pregnant. What else can I do to make this work? He speaks abusively to me. I hit him. He's lazy. Drama all the time.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi im 19 years old and 21 weeks pregnant with a baby girl. Ive been with my bf for a year in October. We have a lot of issues in our relationship. We've been okay i guess. But the issue is the way he treats me and how i react. He likes to call me ...

How to get him into running? I do not want to suggest too obviously that he might think his huge belly is bothering me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I have been seeing this shy guy for six dates. I started to like him and he seems to like me too, otherwise he will not ask me out :) We have entered this friend zone. I like his intelligence, some sense of humor, quietness, and like me, he is a...

I've lost hope over my Ex. But she's still confusing me by still contacting me. How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me because I screwed up. But she contacts me everyday. texts me or calls me. I dont answer. She broke up with me! Is this even normal? I thought when you break up with someone you dont talk to them and let the heal...

What do you do when a man confronts you for "talking" to his girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (M) - Let's say you meet a girl by herself who's nice and attractive. You approach her and strike up a conversation with her. Everything seems to be moving along fine.... Five minutes later, her boyfriend shows up all annoyed and angry, says something l...

I want to hear I love you from him. Should I wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - I'm dating a great guy and it's sadly long distance. We do as much as we can to skype as often as possible and so far, it's working out well. When we are together (every three weeks or so) we are always having a great time. My boyfriend has ha...

Why do I day dream about future relationships but I've never been in one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4602 days ago

3 October 2011 (F) - Hi. I'm 14 and I've never had a boyfriend. Sometimes I worry about that but I know I'll find the right guy someday. But I do find myself fantasizing about having a boyfriend and our relationship. Like our conversations, dates, etc. It never gets ...