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Archived questions from: 15 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I need his support. Why will my fiance not stand up for me when his Mom is appallingly rude to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My fiance's family are Mormon and his mother has never approved of me. She has always been rude to me and I have never stood up to her because I do not feel that it is my place. My fiance and I have had so many arguments about his family and he just...

He says he loves me, does not want to break up, but has no feelings for me, what do I do?/

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for just about eight years now, and until recently have been very happy. After a few months of feeling like he didnt want me around him, I asked if he was mad and had i done anything to upset him. He told me ...

He doesn't seem as interested as I am, what can I do to pull him closer??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - there is this guy like his single when i met him and like its being 2 months now he still don't want to start a relationship but the EMBARRASSING thing is that im in love with him and im afraid to tell him cause every time we talk on those things he ...

He is cruel, but I am afraid to break up with him, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid It might sound pathetic, but i love my bf to nuts. But he is often saying things like he is going to have sex with prostitute and he found someone else and he is thinking abt breaking up with me. Whenever he says things like this, he'll...

How will I not seem clingy if I don't know anyone but him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - A young man i,ve been seeing has asked me to go with him to cork for the weekend. I want to say yes but all his friends will be there and his sister ( who i think does not like me ) will be there too with her friends. I don't want to be clingy to ...

Should I wait for my overseas boyfriend or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship with a guy who leave the country and lives there he calls me n sometimes I call him n he asks me to wait on him. I wanna wait on him but he makes promises n don't fullfil them. Now I am entering a relationship n I feel ...

His contacts with his ex's make me uncomfortable, should I be??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Right so 2years ago my bf met up with his ex behind my back and said he hadn't and saved some half naked photos of her on his computer from her facebook. We had a big row and made up. We've been good since then but he still texts other ex's and I ...

I think I was wrong about him, what do you think??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Why is this guy behaving like that? should I be offended? So I've been getting to know this guy. He loves himself and you can tell is all about him cos I ask a lot of questions trying to get him and he never asks me anything about me. He ...

Is it selfish, to want to spend time with her??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am 23 and have been with my girlfriend who is 21 for 5months now with one break up during that time. i have graduated college and she is in her senior year and goes to school which is two hours away from me. we fell in love over the summer where ...

I want a casual relationship, but he's all serious...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - So this guy Fahey and I have been going out for almost a month. He asked me out the second time we hung out and I think I would've said no or something, but he kind of asked it in an awkward way so I said okay..? And he's a great boyfriend and ...

The Package-Deal Relationship: Not Embraced By The Family?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Ideally we all want to have a family that will be o.k. with the person that we chose to have as partner. But what if someone in our partner's family has a problem with us? Will you become stressed out, confused, or even annoyed by that person's beha...

How important is it to physically fancy someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I'm seeing this guy although i do not have strong feelings towards him either way this is confusing. i dont think im physically attracted to him im not shallow but just not sure hes my type we get on really well and all that but... how importan...

I'm dating the girl my friend likes and he doesn't know it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - My best friend just told me about his undying love for this girl, usually, not a problem. In fact, i'd do anything within my power to make it happen for him. However, I like the girl too and to make it even worse she's coming over and staying in my ...

I screwd up my chance ); I need advice? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - So this guy like at work have been giving me a ride two times (cuz I don't have a car on campus and i have to walk to work and to my classes) The last time he offered I said no thanks. (i felt bad bc he has to drive me)he was like r u sure? and then ...

He wasn't like this at the start. He rebuffs me sexually. Should I act cool in the morning even though his refusal upsets me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now, and i seriously believe whole heartedly that we are meant to be together we are two of a kind, and we have fallen for each other so quickly. He treats me absolutely amazingly and always puts me ...

Mini-makeout session? girls 18-19: how far would you expect the guy to go on your first date with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I am going to get mixed answers here, no doubt. This is aimed at the girls. As an 18 or 19 year old, how far would you expect a guy to go on a first date? Would a mini make out session be too much? How come in the movies couples seem to sleep with ...

Shd he set firmer boundaries when his friends pester him ? Are his friends jealous of his time with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Okay, this question may sound a bit silly, but do I have a point please tell me ... Okay so I went on a family holiday monday til friday and my boyfriend came too. On the friday it didnt even reach the afternoon and he had a call from his flat ma...

I loved him. He hates me now. what can I do? Did he really cheat? I feel so much pain over this breakup.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I was in a long-distance relationship for one year and a half. In a moment of intense weakness, I entered my ex-boyfriend's facebook account. There I found some chat history between him and a girl 15 years younger than him. She seemed to be flir...

My mother calls him a waste of space. Why can't my parents accept him, despite all the good things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My parents dislike (and I suspect possibly even hate) my boyfriend. Why? I'm 19, and he's 21, he's got a job in IT / computer maintenance, went to uni and is qualified, doesn't drink (except as a social drinker) and spends most of his time outside...

Party? what Party? What does it mean when my boyfriend does not invite me to go to a party with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I just found out my boyfriend is going to a party and he didn't invite me. It's not the first time this has happened, really. We have been together for over a year and I think we should go to parties together! (I ALWAYS invite him to my parties ...

I want to be the man she wants. How can I make things more interesting betwen us so I don't lose her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4590 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Please help me out.I have been a relationship for two years, and something happend to me lately. I called my girl with a new phone and sim,claiming to be someone else entirely,(i claimed to be john), i changed my voice for 2 weeks towards her and ...

My girl friend wants to stop sex! I freaked out. Please, how can I make our relationship work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - Hi people of dearcupid I have a major problem with my girlfriend it is just that I love her so damn much and she all of sudden she asked that if we can stop having sex and I got freaked out and asked her why and if she is cheating on me or somethin...

Medical reason? Or does excessive kissing or kissing too deeply make your lips a little puffy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Why were my bf's lips looking slightly puffy? i wanted to ask since i noticed my bf's lips like that when he came back from work. it wasn't thin and normal like its usually.that day it looked that his upper lip was slightly bee stung. i have n...

Is my snoring likely to cause a problem when I move in with my boyfriend? Can anything be done to fix it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Is it annoying if a girl snores? I had my tonsils removed as a kid, but I recently realized that I still snore! Usually when my nose is stuffy, like after my eyes water, or if I'm anywhere near cats... Me and my boyfriend plan on moving in ...

Teething problems with domestic bliss? How do we get the Loving Bliss back into our relationship now we have moved in together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I've just moved in with my boyfriend of many years. We're renting an apartment together. It seems since we've gotten our own place, all our time is taken up with housework! We both work fulltime (and he works TWO jobs, so starts his second one a...

Should I be giving him advice to get the girl he wants? Because I WANT him for myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - I think I am in a love square... Kind of.. Okay, so I like my friend, who likes one of our other friends, and she likes her friend. So we all "like the wrong poeple" so to speak... what should I do? He asks me for advice, and it kills me inside to ...

We are virtual friends and Sext. Should I tell his new girlfriend about us? He says we do the things his Gf is too shy to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i met in college back in december of last year. for most of that time, me and him have kind of been...well, i guess a good term for it would be "virtual friends with benefits." basically, we sext (without pi...

I arranged this date before I knew my mate adores and wants her. Do I cancel my date with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - I have a real issue. My best friend just told me about his undying love for this girl, usually, not a problem. In fact, i'd do anything within my power to make it happen for him. However, I like the girl too and to make it even worse she's coming o...

My over-protective judgmental Mother makes it impossible to see my Bf. How do I make her see reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - My guy and I are in a difficult position. We're not exactly boyfriend and girlfriend but we've been dating for 4 months. I,ve met his family and I want him to meet mine. but because he works so hard and late we barely get to see each other Once a we...

Parents won't accept my current b/f but I've found a new guy they would. I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4590 days ago

15 October 2011 (F) - Hello. Okay, so I usually am never confused when it comes to dating. But this time im stuck! Ive been dating my boyfriend for a year now. Im muslim and he is not. My family will never accept him if he ever wants to marry me. Im his first love. We ...

She texted me and I didn't give her my number. Does that mean she likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4589 days ago

15 October 2011 (M) - A girl I work with and who I have a big crush on texted me some things about work that aren't really that important. She could've easily told me them the next day. The thing is, we never swapped numbers so she must've got it from someone else. Is ...