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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Why should I stay with a guy whose mom truly doesn't like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Why should I stay with a guy whose mom doesn't like me? I'm getting so fed up with everything, if I been with her son for 2 yrs why does she still sit there and acts like a bitch with me ? I never cheated on him or anything. Okay yes we have our ...

Ladies: How important are a man's looks in a relationship?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

23 October 2011 (?) - Hello. This is not a "problem" as such, but i have a question for the ladies.... TRUTHFULLY, how important are a mans looks in a relationship? I ask this for 2 reasons. Firstly women always say that its personality, kindness, empathy, sense o...

The girl I'm dating says "Just enjoy the ride" she doesn't see us long term. Should I keep dating her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - Hi I've been dating a girl for 5 months now, i often mention long term plans, but she always says she doesn't think we will be together long term, as she feels she will sabotage the relationship at some point without knowing it, she also says th...

How do you keep conversations going in relationships?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - Conversations, How do you keep conversations in relationships going, I always found it hard to i mean you are always texting, calling, being around your spouse i dont understand how you keep finding conversations or ways to keep things fun and not ...

He said he'd call but he hasn't so I guess he's not that into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Why have I not heard from him? is he just not that into me? There's this guy that I really like. I rang him earlier he was on his way to work and he said we should go see a movie tonight after work. Half 6 is now 10 minutes to 7pm and I've...

My dad made me break up with my boyfriend and I need some help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Ok so im 16 and i was in a relationship with an 18 year old polish guy called bercik for about 11 months this november .i was crazy about him and we did everything together.I was drinking before i met him and now my dad is blaming him for it .i lost ...

Next step after making out?

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23 October 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and we make out alot. but what is the next step? ...

I always like the chase of a relationship and move on quickly, how can I keep someone in my life?

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23 October 2011 (F) - When ever I meet a guy and we start talking I begin to "like" him but really its just the excitement of meeting someone new becasue I then realize that this person is not anything special to me and they could be anyone. Basically I like the chase ...

Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Hey, Do you think a longterm monogamous relationship is a realistic hope to have in modern society? I'm asking because my bf of 1.5yrs has been making hints about marriage, and it made me wonder if anyone out there actually manages a happy marriage ...

Any idea on what this guy may be thinking??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Ok, so me and this guy have been talking for about two months now. We talk on the phone every night, text throughout the day and go out on dates (lunch, dinner, movies ect.) In the beginning he led on to the fact that he was looking for a actual ...

Ideas for a romantic date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Hi :) I need to arrange a date for the guy im seeing and i to go on. Last week he took me out in the evening and set up a picnic by a lake with candles - it was so romantic! Now i feel its my turn to arrange something but i have no idea wha...

My ex girlfriend wanted to have a look "down there" after knowing I had some complications with my circumcision. Platonic or something more to it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - I split with my girlfriend six months ago and still enjoy hanging out with her. Before the relationship, we were always close, open friends so decided to revert to that. Anyway, I recently had a circumcision and following that were some ...

Advice on asking girl out needed so she doesn't think it's "just friends"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - alright, 2 questions here. There is this girl in my class at university who I really want to ask out. But I have a few concerns. 1) I know it's recommended that you don't ask a girl out in front of a lot of people (for your sake and hers) so I was ...

Do white lies in a relationship matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Hey, I'd love your opinions on whether white lies in a relationship matter? I've been with my bf for a year, and he's already mentioning that he can see us having a future together, and has asked me to move in with him. I'm happy about that, but ...

Are we doomed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - We've been together for 3-years. This weekend was a nightmare. A few things were happening, my aunty died about a week ago and I am naturally grieving. But my partner doesn't get it. He's never lost anyone close to him and doesn't know what it's ...

He knows I like him and I don't want to come off as annoyingly persistent

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23 October 2011 (?) - Well I finally told my crush that I liked him and it was surprisingly not as bad as I thought it would be :) I thought I was going to be so crushed! But he was actually really nice about the whole thing. He told me that he doesn't go aroun...

He broke up with me saying he didn't love me...now he says he misses me and wants to be friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - I broke up with my ex at the beginning of the year after I had suspected that he and one of my close friends were having a thing behind my back. He never admitted to it but he also never denied it. He told me he just doesn't love me and that was the ...

My boyfriend is flirting with transmen

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - I'm 25, my boyfriend's 27, we've been together for over 5 years, lived together in our own home for 2 years now. We have a young daughter as well - he's the father, I'm not a single mum etc. - she was born out of wedlock to be technical. In the la...

She has awakened something inside of me... how do I get to know her better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4580 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - When my band played at the local pub, my mother's best friend from high school decided to come along because the gig took place on my birthday. Ive known thier family for as long as i can remember, but i hadn't seen them in a long time. So when they ...

Everytime I'm with him, he gets a hard on!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4578 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Hello! I am just beginning to date a new man (5 dates, its still early days and not yet 'official' in terms of being classed as bf/gf). He is a total sweetie, and a real gentleman, I really couldnt wish for a nicer man. I really do like him,...

After patchup , do I own apology to my grilfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - I think exactly 50 days back, I dumped my girlfriend who would yell at me like hell for small thing like why my room sounds like garbage with everything all over the place. Finally, I gave up and dumped her . We were together for 4 years and ...

Should I keep dating my LD b/f or go with my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - i been with my boyfriend for 7 months, the only problem with this relationship is that its long distance and i only seen him 1 time in the relationship. now i just recently started to branch out talking again to my first crush (im 16 i loved this ...

Should I date this liar?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm a freshman and he's a junior. He's had sex with 3 girls I know of and I'm a virgin, he promises he won't hurt me or pressure me into sex. He's lied to me once about how many girls he's had sex with. When I talk to him in person i...

Is it worth persuing this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4582 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - Story: My ex and I got together after being friends for a couple weeks. He's 25 and I'm 19. It was very unexpected since I just got out of a 2 year long relationship a couple months before and had dated someone else for a few weeks. Our relation...

Is he missing me? he has not directly apologized, but he is posting profile pictures of himself from when we were together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - If a guy starts posting his profile pictures as those from the time when you were together...but not exactly the ones you're in... is he just thinking of the general time or could he... possibly missing you. He has given other signals, like rea...

How Much Time is Too Much Time Apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for about two months now. The first three weeks were smooth sailing, but ever since then our relationship has been rocky. We only get to see each other once a week, usually on the weekend, and problems arise because when we're ...

Life passing by. How do I cope with Mom pressure?. I hate she's constantly reminding me I'm getting older and less wannted

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - I'm about to turn 25 and i'm having a quarter life crisis. Every other aspect of my life is good. I'm graduating from grad school soon, I have a great job that I love. The only thing that is going wrong is my lack of a love life. I want marriag...

Was he that good? Is this normal? I'm horny and if he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from touching myself

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - First off, my age group is misleading, I'm a few days to 18. Anyways, about a month or so ago, me an my bf got intimate, not sex, but he did finger me. Ever since then, when I'm horny and he's not there, it's hard for me to feel pleasure from to...

She says she loves me, but has shown absolutely no emotion or affection toward me since we got back together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4582 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - Things my girlfriend of 4 and half years dreads if I ask her:- "Shall we have a night out?" We used to have nights out at least once a week. Then we split up for 3 months in 2008 and got back, things have never been the same. Its as if she doe...

He flirts and texts. But that's it. Do I give up on him? He brings out the best in me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

23 October 2011 (F) - I met this guy about a year ago. I started liking him about 5 months ago, still like him. He keeps sending me mixed signals, and Im just really confused. Ive told him I like him, but nothing ever happens. Yet when we text or I see him, he flir...

Do I tell my fiance about this? Accident while Doctor attended to me. Does this mean I'm not a virgin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - Hello everyone. I'm a 24 year old virgin. I've never done anything more than kiss heavily. I'm perfectly fine and happy about that. I'm engaged to a wonderful girl who is just like me; needless to say we are insanely eager to get married and ...

Please be fair about this : I'm a virgin. How can I make it easier for me to find a girl without a sexual past??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4568 days ago

23 October 2011 (M) - okay, i have a problem and i would like some help if you guys have the time to give me some advice, is not the first time that i bring this question here, but i feel that the last time i didn't express myself correctly and only confused the readers, ...