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Archived questions from: 24 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Any ideas for birthday present for my boyfriend?

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24 October 2011 (F - I'm not sure what to get my boyfriend for his birthday next week. I bought him a voucher for a massage and already gave it to him, but I feel like that's not enough. I plan on baking him his favorite cookies and a little birthday cake to send in the ...

I haven't done anything different but this guy has just stopped contacting! Any ideas why?

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24 October 2011 (F - So I met this guy about 7 months ago at the gym and he was very nice. We seemed to see eachother there alot and said hi then eventually he added me on fackbook and after a two hour long good conversation, we exchanged numbers. For the past two ...

I don't know if the guy I am dating considers me his girlfriend? How do I go about asking?

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24 October 2011 (F - I don't know what to make of this guy I've been dating. It's been about 4 months. And so far we have both be just as willing and putting in the same effort. We meet up about once a week, go on a fun date, now and again twice a week. We starte...

Is he giving signs that he likes me...?

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24 October 2011 (F - At work there's this guy who I've definitely started developing feelings for and a lot of other people seem to think he likes me too. Unfortunately there's a lot of red tape, he has a girlfriend and I have a long distance boyfriend. I'm n...

He says he loves me very much, then says he would choose his wife over-how would you react?

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24 October 2011 (F - I have been having a relationship with a married man for 5 yrs. I know he loves his wife and he won't leave her but he tells me at the same time he loves me very much and wants me and doesn't want to lose me. 2 days back, we had an argument abou...

Even though I love my new boyfriend to bits is it possible I still love my ex?

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24 October 2011 (F - Hello, just a short question. Even tho i have another boyfriend after my ex i think i still love him. I love my new boyfriend, but we have had some arguments. My ex hasnt spoke to me much since the break up he siad he still wanted to be friends, and ...

She seems to be using me to break up with other guys, does she really need me? Or is she messing me around?

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24 October 2011 (M - i met a beautiful girl at a family party at someones house one night.....then on, my life changed. We facebook each other to the extreme and like it alot. I love her company on fb and we flirt quite alot as well. The problem is.....she was in a ...

Could this be love?

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24 October 2011 (F - Could this be Love? iv'e been seeing this guy for about 3yrs, he has always told me he likes me lots and lots and lots. we only see each other. we get on fine everything is great and we don't argue to much, he calls me everyday and texts me morning ...

She comes and goes as she pleases! How can I understand her behaviour better?

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24 October 2011 (M - Okay. So, I've known a (female) friend of mine for quite some time now. Perhaps as much as four years. We've been friends, sure not much of a problem there. But nowadays, things seem to be getting stuck in a haze. She affectionately c...

Does he want me as his girlfriend, or does he want no strings attached?

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24 October 2011 (F - i had known this guy for 4 months now. It all started during our 3 month volunteer duty. At first, i find him to be someone so quiet, serious and mysterious. People on the place where we both volunteered tried to pair and tease us. Soon we started ...

Where is my love?

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24 October 2011 (M - Hi, i am looking for advice. I am 24 years old and I am a virgin . I am a very social person I have no problems talking to women I actually like it. I'm not bad looking and I have a good job. If I were a girl I would say I'm a good catch. But for ...

He's like a jack in the box..popping in and out of my life, constantly. How do I deal with this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4579 days ago

24 October 2011 (F - I met "busy bee" a year ago, we hit it off right away and the chemistry was just wow. at first he seemed excited i was excited he was my first of everything, my first real explosive kiss, we connected!! we would link up here and there, I thought he ...

I love him but hate his friends! What should I do?

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24 October 2011 (F - I love my boyfriend and I know he is the one for me but I don't like his group of friends and it could potentially ruin us if I don't know how to communicate my feelings with him. I am in a blossoming loving LDR with a man I love and met through ...

I found out that my girlfriend was talking to another guy, on the phone? What should I do?

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24 October 2011 (M - My girlfriend was working and a guy that she use to hangout with called her and they were on the phone for 20 min or so. Should I get mad at her? Plus she was ignoring my phone calls. What do I do ...

Meeting my online date in 2 weeks and I am nervous! Any advice?

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24 October 2011 (M - Just to set things up: I'm 18, just graduated high school in the spring and am now in college. I'm a gay guy and a virgin. Okay, here's the thing, there are no remotely gay people at my school. None. I've been to all the LGBT club meetings and I a...

My biggest fear is being cheated on?

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24 October 2011 (F - I haven't had a boyfriend yet, but my greatest fear is being cheated on. I guess it's because growing up my dad cheated on my mom and even went as far as to introduce me to one of his mistresses. But my greatest fear is being cheated on and hur...

I haven't had a first kiss yet?

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24 October 2011 (F - I am 18 years old and have yet to have a first kiss let alone a first boyfriend. I do feel really bad about it especially since most of my friends have fwb's and hookup buddies. I wanted to wait until I have a boyfriend to have my first kiss, b...

Am I reading too much into this guy's behavior's?

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24 October 2011 (F - I started getting weird vibes from a man at work. He is married with two kids. We work together and keep it professional. I noticed that when people are not looking, he will wink at me with a smile. He did this twice. If I need something that ...

Does he consider me girlfriend material?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4578 days ago

24 October 2011 (F - Hello Cupid! I've been good friends with this guy for several months, and we talk/hangout pretty often. We have a lot in common (not to mention that we are from the same state), but deep down I have a crush on him. Even though we have this connec...

How do I ensure we do NOT break up? Between school, homework, and work, he doesn't have any time for me anymore..

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24 October 2011 (F - Hello, I've been with D for seven months. He just started college and I'm still in high school and he barely has any time for me anymore and I'm getting fed up of being so lonely all the time. We both love each other very much and I do NOT want to...

When my ex said "I met a nice guy", was that her way of trying to make me jealous? Or does she really want me to leave her alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4580 days ago

24 October 2011 (M - So I recently am going through a break that happened about 2 months ago or so. I was with this girl for about 8 months and I still miss her. The other night I got drunk (yes stupid) and texted her. I guess I just wanted to text her when I was sober ...

Since starting university, I go from missing my B/f terribly and wanting nothing more than to be with him to wanting to ring him up and end things, several times a day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

24 October 2011 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been together for nearly two and a half years. We're very close (I consider him my best friend as well as boyfriend), love spending time together and still find each other just as attractive as we did when we first started ...

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