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Does he like me or am I just "plan b" if he doesn't get her?

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Question - (31 October 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 November 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

ok so my ex and I broke up and during this relationship my other ex(joe) and I stayed good friends,we often wrote on Facebook, he was often flirty and it seemed like he was waiting for me to become single again.(he is/was making out with a girl

he was in love with 2years ago but he said he was just wasting time and calling him happy would be exaggerated) now I am single for 3weeks and first he was really cute and we had a kind of date, now we sometimes write on Facebook and he is still really flirty but we live really near to each other and 2days ago there was a party and we were writing on Facebook that day and he didn't ask me if I go there too because he was there (but he even wrote me while he was at that party) and today is the same (the girl he made oit during the last time was also there so probably because of that he didn't ask me. do you think this could be the reason?why does he never ask me if I go to the same party or so?) so why is he flirty with me when he is making out with another girl or why does he make

out with her although apparently he doesn't want a relationship with her (he would made it official and wouldn't flirt or go out to dinner with me)?( i am not sure if they still make out i just know she was also at this party)

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A female reader, babygirllovej Canada +, writes (1 November 2011):

babygirllovej agony auntHe sounds like he's up to no good. Stringing two girls along like that. You deserve better then that. Stop contacting him. It's about time you get over him and improve on your self-esteem.

Look for a guy that is interested in only you. Your ex is clearing just playing with you.

Good Luck!

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