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Archived questions from: 9 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Its bothering me! I don't know if he said I love you or am I hurting you?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - Last night me and a guy i,ve been dating ended up in bed while we were in the middle of having sex I thought he said " Love you " as i didnt hear it very well i asked him what did you say? and he said you me " am I hurting you "..I don't know ...

Do I keep to our plans or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - I've been seeing a girl for a few months now and we've been getting closer in a slow and steady way. A month or so ago she asked me if I would like to fly over to Germany to meet her Mother and stay there for a few days. Naturally, I was flattered ...

Intimacy problems

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for 5 months now. He's lovely and we get on really well. Thing is, after 5 months together there's still been no intimacy. He'll give me a kiss (peck on the lips) straight away when we meet, then the same again when we ...

How do I let her know I'm interested in being more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - I'm a bit of a nervous guy and when it comes to talking to new girls I never know what to say. I thought I would ask for help since I was out at a party last night and despite knowing a girl was interested in me and I was interested in he...

Why didn't he want to have sex with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - dear Aunts, i have a boyfriend, we're "official" for about two months now, so not that long.there's quite big age gap between us, he's 16 years older than me (i'm 24). my problem is....i think he doesn't find me attractive.we get on really well, ...

My ex wants me back, but can I trust him after he texts other girls ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - Hey I recently split up with my ex fiance who I have been engaged to for nearly a year and he has been texting me saying he still loves me and wants me back but I don't think I can trust him not to leave me again throughout our relationship I used...

We are both inexperienced...we've gotten up to fingering...what's next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4542 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 months and I are really great together, never have any serious arguments or anything. First serious relationships for both of us. Because of this we are both very inexperienced, he was a bit nervous at first but slowly we got very ...

Have I missed the signs? What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - did i miss the sign. am look back an seeing what i did wrong with girls. my friends tell me i alway miss the sign, most of the girls i met have said they been in bad relationship, so i try to be a good guy, but it seen that was an bad thing. tell ...

Should I ask her on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - There is this girl two years older than i am we work in the same company,she is strict,looks reserved ,and naive. since she came into the company am the only guy she discusses with for a very long time,plays with and shares jokes with.she even her ...

Should I dump my boyfriend ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - Should i dump my boyfriend ? I stayed at his place from thursday until yesterday and we argued on friday and saturday.we argued on friday because he wanted us to lose our virginity together,especially as it was his birthday.we couldnt though as i ...

Am I shrinking or is she getting loose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - so the other day me and my girlfriend was having sex.. it seems as thought she is getting really loose now.. i gotta admit im a pretty small guy and i am pretty small down there, but now it seems like i can't really feel her as much as i use to..and ...

I can say for a fact that we are both in love with each other and we always will love each other

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4562 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - Me and this girl have been dating for over a year and I can say for a fact that we are both in love with each other and we always will love each other. We've never cheated on each other. Here recently in the relationship, we haven't been able to see ...

Does he want me to be a friend? Girlfriend?

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9 October 2011 (F) - Okay so one year back I met this guy who was my senior at school. I had a crush on him back then but I got over it in time. I told him about it and he was pretty cool with it. We became good friends and we used to catch up sometimes. Once he came ...

Ex - Teacher Trouble

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (?) - Hi, so in my last year of high school, a new science teacher joined the school and obviously i thought about him as much as any other teacher. Which was almost never. He never taught me, only the lower sets. And he hardly ever talked. Howeve...

She doesn't know how to tell guys to back off and I'm starting to think you like the attention

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - This girl I'm kinda seeing doesn't really feel comfortable telling guys to back off. And she always tend to have guys going after her. I'm not sure if she likes the attention. I mean she tells me the guys are losers and it's annoying, but she ...

I have this nasty habit of making fun of girlfriend's class. People, please help me get rid of this nasty habit?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - I am deeply in love with this gorgeous girl and we have been in a relationship for ten years. I was born in a rich family and hardly made myself sweat for anything I wanted my life whereas she’s middle class but with decent education background ...

Ex-boyfriend and I remained best friends until he found someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I'll try to keep this simple, since it's a complicated situation to begin with. I'm 24 years old. I was in a serious relationship with my ex for 4 years, we shared our lives together, he even lived at my house for a year. All though we fought a lot, ...

I'm having a hard time finding a boyfriend. Why arn't guys attracted to me, they same way they are to my friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3537 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I am 20 years old and I have having a hard time finding a boyfriend. I live away from home at my university and when I go out to bars, my friends have no problem picking up guys or getting guys to dance with them. I do not think I am unfortunate ...

My "best friend" (girl) walks around me naked, teases me, and then when I try to do something, she refuses sex saying it would ruin our friendship!!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (M) - So this girl I met this year is like amazingly gorgeous, and she has been my supposed "best friend" for a couple months now, even tho ive never been in a platonic relationship. The thing is were both really attracted to each other and she "swears" ...

I feel like my faith in men is non existent right now! It seems that jerks always win!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I was seeing someone for about a couple of months. But he dumped me by text, coz he "wanted to be single". I said I deserve better and that's your loss. Months later he apologized and said he made a mistake etc etc. He asked to meet me for coffee. ...

How do I approach this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I'm shy and don't know how to approach this guy.. He is in one of my school clubs but i dont have any classes with him. I do know that he is shy as well. I dont want to randomly approach him and have him thinking i am strange. So how do i approach ...

I think I may be in love with my best friend but I feel very ambivalent about starting a romantic relationship with him, because I am scared that I won't feel attracted to him in the long run

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I have quite a dilemma on my hands. I am 24 and in grad school. I have become very close to a guy, "John," in my same year in the program -- he is essentially my best friend. Over the last 6 months especially we've become extremely close; we ...

It just feels like Groundhog Day everyday I'm around my b/f and life is just passing me by

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4595 days ago

9 October 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. Everything was perfect at first, thought I'd found my dream guy, there was a real connection like I'd never had before. My feelings just grew stronger and stronger. We were inseperable, happier than we'd both ...