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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I love this girl but she doesn't like me at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - So, this is what happened last year. Back then I was 16 and I fell in love with a girl. Oh she was beautiful! Then came a chance to express my feelings. It was a school party. The only problem was that I didn't have the skill to... "get girlfriends" ...

Is it normal to still be a virgin at 22?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Um ... I am writing this because I am not sure if it's normal. I am a young female (22 years old), kind of tall, OK-looking .. and I've never been asked out. Like .. ever. I was recently having a casual conversation w/ some of my peers...

We work together, we kissed and now things are awkward!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - Okay so I started working at this restaurant when I had a girlfriend, and this beautiful girl I'm involved with now had a boyfriend. We both ended those relationships at pretty much the same time (not a planned thing, just a coincidence). We started ...

Age gaps while dating in school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - My mates younger brother asked me a question the other day that i couldn't answer properly so I thought I would ask the dearcupid community. In a rough round about way he is 15 and he fancies a kid a 2 years younger but he was getting stick fr...

You don't bring me flowers anymore..

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I've been dating someone for 3 months...we moved fast and are in a committed relationship. I want to know why things change...We used to text constantly during the day..now? Not as much...He used to bring flowers...Now? Nope..We have been ...

How do we break the "Ice"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I just recently ended a relationship that was a little over 2 years long. However, I semi checked out quite some time ago due to his reverting back to old habits of drinking and temper, and just knowing I deserved way better and I’m not in it to ...

Courtesy and Texting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I usually wait to text my boyfriend until I hear from him first. We've been together a year. Initially texting like gangbusters on both sides, so it's not like it was an annoyance when we started. I knew he was going out last night (no problems ...

I'm worried about asking out a girl who is taller than me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - hey everyone, i just have a lil problem, im doing an exchange program in europe and i really like this girl in my class, shes cute but the problem is shes a lil taller than me even without heels. im actually okay with talkin to girls i like but this ...

Why do guys act interested, then ignore you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I met this guy while I was at a club on Friday. It was his friend who was chatting to me more during the night and he was just more into the music (it wasn't like a trashy club we were all there to see a big DJ) so I had to make the effort to speak ...

Will all the men I meet be damaged goods?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Is 43 too old to find a partner capable of a mature but fun and equal relationship? Does it help that I look younger, even though I don't want a younger partner? I am recently out of a relationship that lasted almost two decades and can see where ...

Seeing his old messages brought up my insecurities

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Well this morning my boyfriend left me alone in his flat as he went to work. I wanted to watch tv online so I turned it on but before decided to check my fb. As he never usually is logged in I didn't expect it when he was. I then began looking ...

Is my FWB toying with me? Should I wait and see what he does or should I just ignore him and get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I've had a FWBs relationship with a guy for a little over a year now, I've asked for advice on here before but now there is a different problem I seem to cant understand. He has recently become more affectionate with me and openly telling me he wa...

Playing hard to get?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - Girls if you meet a guy and he's showing some signs of interest in you would you play hard to get just so he can chase you?...

Does it seem like she's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - Met a girl about a month back. Only seen her twice but a couple of nights ago she and I had a 2 hour conversation from 12-2 about Facebook, studies, interests, TV shows and animals. Would you girls have that kind of conversation with someone ...

Am I just another good-hearted loser in this world?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - Hey Everyone, When it comes down to dating, sex, and the opposite sex I'm a very confused man.I have had at least 7+ females tell me in a blunt, sincere, and point blank manor that they find me to be physically attrracive and claim that they rea...

I gave him $9000 dollars. Could that be the only reason he stays? He still hasn't paid it back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - My and my bf of 1.5 years had a fight a week back which was not my fault. But anyway i apologiazed and we made up. But the thing is he used to call me/msg me at least once a day. For the past few days he is not calling, even if he does just talk...

Nude Pictures. I just did a mistake. Do you guys think my friends would understand me and forgive me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4403 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - hi will i ever find a boyfriend? i did something a year ago its almost two years. i went to a chatting site and i have friends who are gay,bi, etc. and straight a lot. and i was so bored a few days before i took pics with my pc nude. i know i shou...

Friends? Should I treat my best friend the way she treated me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Hey everyone... I have a quick question. So my best friend ( x ) and I were both single. She met a Guy and we both was happy about it. Because who wants to be alone all the time? So when she was dating him, like very happy. She would pick him o...

Any make-up and style tips for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - I'm a pretty nerdy person. I have never had a boyfriend and I would like to change that. Most guys I like are out going and "crazy" but I'm pretty shy unless around friends. When I'm around my friends, I'm crazy, random, and fun. But with strangers ...

When married guys flirt are they looking for the "emotional attachment" that I miss too? Or are they just looking for no frills sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (F) - Does anyone else have a difficult time getting over a crush? I am married with kids and in my late 30's yet still wonder whether my married crush thinks about me etc. My husband is very attractive and athletic - more so than my crush but is some...

She refused to go out with me.Says not yet. what is she afraid of, or is she afraid at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

4 October 2011 (M) - Ok, earlier I said, "I am jealous of my friend going out with my other friend", so to get her out of my head I looked for another girl and said, "how do I get my friend to like me". She said no when I asked her out, so now I went back to the girl...