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Archived questions from: 8 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Embarrassed of getting erection while hugging my date. Opinions needed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - Something very embarrassing happened to me and I would like female readers' opinions: There's this girl at work with whom we've been flirting for a few months now. Finally she initiated to go for a friendly coffee where we had a really nice and...

I want to know his feelings!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - i’m in love with a boy and he’s my friend about one year,one day i confess him that i love him but he didn’t say anything i was so broken after that,and he didn’t talk, about that and he acted so normaly,then after sometime i was talking to him and ...

Would he ever want to commit? How do I bring it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Hello. Just wanted to get some opinions of my situation. ( especially the men ) I have been dating a guy now for 5 months. Both of us have been married before with kids ( on both sides ) I know he is the one for me. When we met, after about 2 ...

Early on in dating, is 26 hours without contact a cause to worry?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4577 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I hvae just started dating a new man. We have been on two (what I think) have been amazingly wonderful dates, and there is great chemistry and a connection already. It is obvious he is attracted to me - he isn't making any attempt to hide the f...

He seemed interested, but now he's not responsive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I have a query, let me set the scene for you all.... When I was 16 or so I used to go out with a guy, I lost my virginity with him and we have always remained friends. We had not spoken for a couple of years and he got in touch with me recently...

My mom thinks my BF is abusive, but he's not!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I have been dating my bf for about 8 months now.My parents don't really like him because when he was 17 he and a bunch of friends broke into a cottage, threw a party and the place got trashed. He got house arrest and had to do community service. My ...

I haven't found a girl I want to date!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - How do I find love? I'm still single. I haven't found the right women yet. I'm very nice, confident, not a push over, very smart, cool, a good kid and a sweet heart. I don't know why a girl doesn't like me back yet. I've been waiting for the right ...

My ex is doing all the things I love with his new woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2646 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I'd like to know why a man will do one things with one girlfriend that he wouldn't do with another. I broke up with my ex-bf nearly 2 years ago and he found a new partner very quickly. I was getting over this fairly well, until I found out all th...

How do I talk to my sister about what she saw?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - My sister is small and she dosen't know anything about sex. My mom went on a trip from her office and I have to look after my sis. My boyfriend came to my house. My sis don't tell anything about him to my mom because he is very friendly with my sis ...

Dating is new for me and I'm having trouble getting in touch with my feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - ok so theres this guy who likes me and has made it clear that he likes me however i have never been in this situation before and am having trouble knowing how i feel i kinda feel numb and not sure if i have feelings for him back, i like spending ...

What are the non-verbal clues that a person likes you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Ok just curious on the responses, for both guys and gals, what are some nonverbal ways to tell someone is interested in you...

Will I ever trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Just over two years ago, I embarked on what was then an affair with my current boyfriend. We knew each other from work and he had always been flirty with me, he had given me his number a few months before and after discovering he had a wife I backed ...

I've been there for her. Yet she doesn't want others to know about me. Is there anything worth waiting for in all this, for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (M) - what does my ex want from me? my ex and I broke up years ago, we decided to stay friends, but it seem to me at cost. it seem ok at first but i began to wonder, over the years, she dated other people, and so have i. but i think i put myself in toubl...

Does our friend have a new girl friend or not? He is acting differently with this one versus all his previous girl friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - my dearest friend has a new girlfriend, we text heaps and he's always talking about her and what they get up to etc. BUT when we are face to face and I ask how she is going he just says she is good and changes the subject? is there a reason for this...

He's jealous. I feel scared if we break up he's not going to care about anything. And he's not warmed to my children. But wants his own. Problems ahead?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend over a year. He's a really nice guy he's a lot older than me by like 8 yrs or so. Sometimes we disagree with so many things as he's a really jealous guy!! Recently my family had been talking to me about him ch...

Why is it so easy for guys to act heartless after a break-up? I was upset because he was hiding things from me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - So me and my bf of 5 months have recently broke up a week ago and im about to go insane! I don't know what to do anymore, he was always there for me and my son, hes done more for my son then my sons father! he would come over every night.. ever...

Do I have to compromise and give up my goals to find love? Caring for animals is my passion. Can I find love too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Will I ever find someone with the same goals as me? I am interested in love, men, etc....finding "the one", but what I am most interested in in life is animals. I want and dedicate my life to making sure I help as many animals as I can. Its time ...

I am constantly worried he will break up with me. How do I prevent this? How do I act to ensure I keep him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I've recently got a boyfriend who I like a lot, except I'm constantly worried he'll break up with me even though there isn't any real indication that he will. Is this normal? What are things I should do to prevent this? and will playing kind of hard ...

We's been together for 4 years. But is my 22 year old partner losing interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Hi I've been with my partner for 4 years he's 22 snd I'm 34 , we always had a spontaneous sexual relationship but for the past year and half we hardly ever have sex I am gettin frustrated with him as I caught him pleasuring himself , why don't he ...

Am I the world to my fiance, or does his heart still belong to his ex? He lies to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - I've been engaged to this guy for 6 years we share everything together he never leaves my side and works really hard for us to have everything but we have a problem and I guess its me but idont know how to let go..when I first met him he lied to me ...

First it's all good. Then he stops replying. Then stupid excuses. what does his confusing behaviour mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - Why would a guy who seemed really into you, told you he liked you a lot, text you all the time, suddenly not reply to your text message? Secondly after a couple of weeks you text him again, but this time he replies, with a stupid excuse as to why...

It still hurts. He has drug issues. How do I accept it will never be the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

8 October 2011 (F) - It's been six months since I moved out of my place with my ex and so much has changed. We dated for over a year, and in the beginning everything was perfect. I knew he had a past with drugs, but I thought that's where it was going to stay. We star...