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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2011 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it common for guys to take pictures of a girl during intimate moments?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

5 October 2011 (?) - This is pretty humiliating but i'd like to know peoples opinions. Me and a guy i was seeing were having sex then (without asking) he starts taking pictures of me! I was lying on the bed and he was standing and just started taking pictures while he...

How do I deal with moving away from my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - So I am moving away from my boyfriend permanently and he ignores me a lot and gets mad easily. I understand that he is upset about it, but he will not communicate how he feels. I ask him how he feels about the situation and he says that he loves me ...

Am I being played by my old crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Ok so I started talking to my middle school crush again. I found him on facebook. We used to have the biggest crush on each other but we were too little to "date" hehe. Anyways I haven't seen him since 7th grade! and we're both 20 now.. we're still ...

Too much too soon!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - So things are going well with my new boyfriend been almost two months. But - I lived on my own and have worked from home most days, for over a year - which has suited me fine as I absolutley adore my space. The new man is wonderful, but assume...

I'm new to the area. How can I make friends and meet women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - hi everyone, ive recently moved to a new area, 160 miles from my home town, for a job. the contract was only for a year and i didnt know anyone here, but a job's a job so i took it. been here for 6 months now and i really like my job and the peop...

My girlfriend is suspecting me of cheating for no reason, what I need to do to make her get rid of this habit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - I am in a relationship with this gorgeous and nice girl for the last two years and she happens to be two younger than me . My problem is my girlfriend suspects me of cheating on her that's not the case though… maybe she 's getting wrong idea when I ...

I'm worried about what my cousin will say when she finds out I did things with a boy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - right well i done stuff with a boy the other day while my cousin was on holiday, me and my cousin are both 15 but she is older she is very protective of me and goes mental when she finds out i've done stuff as she has never done anything, she comes ...

I am flattered but is it too early for him to be saying all these things? We've been dating 7 weeks....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 7 weeks now. things have been really good and we get on so well. He works away mon-fri after getting a job promotion and is doing really well. He told me about his childhood and how traumatic it was.. His mum was ...

Not being able to breathe during sex scared me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I've been talking to/dating someone for a few months and last week we finally had sex. I am attracted to him physically and mentally. He used to weigh 400lbs and lost weight (not sure how much). Well, I'm no skinny chick, but he's heavier than I am ...

Should I tell him that in the past I slept with his cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - is it wrong, dating a guy whom in the past like five years ago u slept with a guy, who happen to be his cousin, but u didn't know back than....only discoverd now after dating this guy that they are cousin with the one u slept with in the past, but ...

My sister is trying to tell my father about the boyfriend he doesn't know about. I want her to be quiet!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My boy friend is 24 years old and i'm 17. But my family don't know anything about us. And he is my mom's friend's son My dad is sombody who gets angry quickly because of that i don't like to tell this to them. Yesterday was my sister's B'day and we ...

Help! Advice? Am I driving my daughter away? Am I being too controlling?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

5 October 2011 (?) - My daughter will be 21 on her next birthday. She is a high achiever but also could be a handful at times. From the ages from 16 to 18 she was out a lot, yes she was doing her A levels, part time job and cared for her horse. She also did go out with...

How to find love again? And find a good guy who's a keeper?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - hi everyone....my question is simple.i want to know how i can find love again. broke up with my ex boyfriend 4 months ago. I am finally ok with it and have made a decision to move on. But i need some tips on how to get the attention of the really n...

How do I get this girl to accept my proposal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - I'm 3rd year Electronics engineering student,I like a girl and I had been proposed her 1 year ago but she says that we are good friends.I have special feelings for her I still love her.What should be done which help to get my answer? ...

Falling in love with a classmate! How do I get him to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Hi. I have a problem that I don't know how to approach. First I should tell you that I think I've started falling for this guy in my class. He on the other hand doesn't seem to have any interest in me whatsoever. I think about him all the time, I'...

When does a guest stop being a guest?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months is not living with me but he seems to stay here at least 3 nights a week. He has not worked since I have known him, has had interviews for jobs but not getting anywhere (he is a very intelligent man and has a lot of ...

Why do I keep making mistakes due to inattention to detail? How can I do things differently?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I keep messing up in my relationship with my boyfriend. It's over little things like not remembering things that he said he told me and forgetting too tell him thing too. It has put a serious dent in our relationship. Like tonight we got in to a fi...

He tells me to be straight forward. Should tell him that it bugs me that we are not communicating effectively?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Hello everyone I'm so sad. I have a best friend we've known each other for 1 1/2 years and we meet at work. we would always go out everywhere talk about everything 24/7 none stop. Little by little I stopped talking to him as much. Months days passed ...

Should I give my husband another chance and risk losing the life I really want, or should I finally file for divorce?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - This is sort of complicated...but not at the same time. Just a decision I have to make and would like some input. My husband and I separated almost two years ago. We had a very bad emotionally abusive relationship. He never worked, expected me to do ...

Have I moved in too soon? Blended family problems. My son is suffering. Should I try living alone with my son instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I left my husband whom I was in a relationship with for 10 years last December. We were very close, but I never really loved him. I am now living with my new partner who is going through a horrible divorce. We have been together for 8 mont...

He lied, I'm hurt, and he doesn't care. How do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i have recently had our 4 year anniverary, and i've known for 3 years that he watches porn, and it bugs me a lot. i have told him, and he just says its not a big deal and gets mad if i bring it up again. that is not the worst part...

Is He Worth It?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Okay soo I'm a junior and im 17 and theres this guy and hes 17 and turning 18 soon.. he's a senior.. and he has a girlfriend but shes a sophomore.. and they've been going out for a little over a year and ive been talking to him for about 6-7 months ...

How do guys act when they like the same woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Can anyone tell me why two guys that like the same woman (and both know the other likes the same woman)would ignore each other when they run into each other in a public place? They know each other. They both had opportunities to talk to each other ...

Why am I so shy with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - How come i am so shy with my new boyfriend?? idk why, we been dating for almost 3 weeks and i kissed him yesturday. Why did it take me so long. And why am i fine when i don't talk to my x but when i do its kinda like why did i dump him, and when i ...

Long term crush sending mixed signals. Should I confront him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Well, there's a boy who I've liked off and on for basically my whole life. We've been good friends since elementary school, and even in 4th grade, I found him to be extremely sophisticated and charming. We're seniors in high school now, and though ...

I'm scared I'll never know how he feels!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - Earlier in the year I went to turkey with some friends,whilst I was there I had a brief romance with a Turkish man. I must stress that he is not the 'stereotypical Turkish man'. It was me who came on to him! He was so lovely to me and kind,I never ...

Kisses and being called sexy

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4599 days ago

5 October 2011 (F) - I have a quick question.if a guy gives you a kiss on the lips and calls you sexy,does he like you ?...

Is is wrong to date a 17 year old? I'm 26

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

5 October 2011 (M) - Hi there. So basically I've got 2 questions here. 1/ I'm 26 and there's this girl I like but she's 17, would you think there is anything wrong with that? If not then read question 2. 2/ I've been talking to her for a few months now, but have never ...