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writes:every thing was so perfect she told me she wanted to make this work so bad and likes me a lot that i am the best thing that has ever happened to her and i think she really meant it we were the perfect couple and had everything in common possible and it felt like we were meant for each other but suddenly lots of problems started coming in to her life and she told me she is not ready for a relationship anymore thought she was but is not right now and says she feels bad and wants to keep in touch but says she is just overwhelmed right now and she is, its just i want to help her through it all and she wont let me. she say she wants to try again when things get fixed in her life but do i wait around for her and if so for how long she would be worth the wait but if she dose not want to do this later on i will be wasting my time what do i do i really want this more than anything but when is too much Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2011): You got that right Patiently Waiting! Take heed to what Patiently Waiting has said, because it is matter of fact true. When my ex returned all simple ass pitiful, I was floored as hell at myself for wondering why I had wasted an entire year of my life over him dumping me. I actually felt sorry for him because it seemed he had changed into the dream guy but I couldn't turned on by him. My new man is the bomb!!!! I gave my ex a list of online dating sites that he could go to and I felt so bad for him that I volunteered to try to find him some blind dates but that hurt him. What can a woman say, I tried. Follow my lead. Tell him see ya, wouldn't want to be ya!
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (5 February 2011):
You are a push over to her. She does not respect you period. She is back with him? I thought she was having family problems? Hmmm. She is a liar too. Try your best to forget about her. Once she sees you don't give a damn anymore then her messed up mind will probably like you then...when she does come back say N O!
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reader, Lusol  +, writes (5 February 2011):
 Waiting around for someone should never be consindered an option. I would say a huge major thumbs down to this girl. If she suddenly has "problems" and doesn't want your "help" or to be "involved" the message is clear that she isn't worth your affections. Move on.
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (5 February 2011):
You can always date other people but let them know you have someone else also. Have fun with your life. It sounds like she was trying to let you down easily honestly. If you feel she is worth it then you be patient but still have your own life.
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reader, fishbait1186 +, writes (5 February 2011):
fishbait1186 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u for the feed back yea you r right but its hard to let someone go like that plus i already told her i would wait for her im probably screwed even more now hu? oh and i just found out she is back with her abusive ex but she dosent know that i know this but i also know he is just using her for a settlement she is expecting soon but she is so blind to see that and wont realize it till its too late what do i do its so hard
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reader, fishbait1186 +, writes (5 February 2011):
fishbait1186 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u for the feed back yea you r right but its hard to let someone go like that plus i already told her i would wait for her im probably screwed even more now hu? oh and i just found out she is back with her abusive ex but she dosent know that i know this but i also know he is just using her for a settlement she is expecting soon but she is so blind to see that and wont realize it till its too late what do i do its so hard
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