A
female
age
36-40,
*alisa
writes:We started this relationship 4 years before. at first we are just classmates but we don't like each other. and at last by some misunderstandings and forces from our friends we started a relationship. but when he got a girl he started using that girl and our relationship became serious. at first onwards he used to keep a distance from me but he loved me too much..if he don't like me also. then after we started living together but problems also started between us. then after 1 year when we are in a very critical stage he told me that we'll go out. at the time when i'm getting ready he waited for me outside with his friend. at that time by mistakenly i heard through phone that he is talking to his friend about the girl which is lived near to my room last year. up to that time i believed him 100 percent but at that time...i lost my belief on him. then after that i went in holidays to my home. at that time he used to call me but very rarely and he didn't told me anything about his holidays. after coming from home we lived together only but with huge huge fights. now we are almost like separated but we are not able to leave each other also.my problem is ..he dosen't cares me at all, whatever me and my things it's not effecting him. nowadays we don't have a sex relationship also. why he hates me this much i don't knowi just loves him too much. he don't like to stay with me. if he is with me also he 'll not talk to me as he talks to his friends. now i'm thinking to leave this relation because this relation is giving me just tears only. after lovin him there is no day without tears for me. he is also not happy with me i think.but the only thing is i love him too much. i can't be without him. Reply to this Question
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reader, manonmoon +, writes (3 April 2011):
Hi...Are you blind or an emotional fool to see clearly that the guy is using you ... and playing with your emotions...?If a guy does not respect you takes care of you...then whats the damn use of him anyways?...move on...you can always find someone better in your life..close this chapter start life fresh...who knows.. there must be someone better in your life..god bless
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