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writes:I'm confused....I went on a trip to New York about 4 weeks ago and I met a guy who was on the same trip as me.We got kind of close on the trip and I sat next to him on the plane home and during the course of the flight we ended up holding hands and kissing a little bit.Later that evening I got his number and we started texting. We text each other every evening since we came back from the trip. Sometimes the conversation got a bit personal and he was really sweet saying that he wished he was with me and stuff and it felt like we were getting into a relationship. We were going to meet up but 2 nights before he said he couldn't make it because he had a driving lesson.Now he's not really texting properly and doesn't really seem interested anymore, something seems wrong. I asked my friend for help and she said that she thinks he's probably texting the same to other girls which really upset me and my other friend said not to text him for the weekend which I've done but he hasn't tried to get in contact with me. My other friend who's a guy said that he's not interested. I'm feeling really down and sad about it. I don't know what to do, do you think he's not interested? Do you think I should ask him what's going on so that I know where I stand?What shall I do?Thank you very muchxxxx
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reader, MeganNicholls +, writes (11 April 2011):
MeganNicholls is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you :)I text him and he said that he was sorry he had been a bit distracted and that he likes me and wants to meet up, it's the Easter holidays now so we're meeting up then :)And he said that he had broken up with his girlfriend a few months beforeThank you for your help :)x
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reader, Yetilicious  +, writes (5 April 2011):
 I'd let him know where you stand, just send one simple text. Something like "I like you, and I would like to see where this could go. If you are no longer interested let me know, I can't wait forever."Either he will text and give you an answer, or he won't text and you can move on with your life. Don't feel too bad about it. It may not necessarily be that he's not interested, as much as it could be he already had a girlfriend or someone else back home waiting for him. In that case, you wouldn't want to be with him in the first place.
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