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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone Ok i know this sounds very very strange as we are not going out but there's this guy i really like known him for over a year now and have slept with him a few times,But the thing is deep down in my heart he's the guy i really want to be with, we kinda have things in common and seem to get on really well, i can really see a future with him but i dont now what he thinks of me and i being to scared to say anything to him just in case he deep down he thinks im totally ugly and doesnt even think im attractive and will say no. Like say last night he picked me up and i said to him oh god u hate me now and he replied no i dont hate u. Anyway what can i do 2 build my confidence in asking him? i really do like him but just think deep down he doesnt look at me in that way ????Do anybody think there is a possible chance it could work and he would say yes? as when we went away for day we both sat at a table with friend and one said whats going on with you two? in which we both said nothing were just friends,How or what do i do?
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reader, Pain-Killer  +, writes (3 April 2011):
 hey friend, i really think that if you have thoughts of having a future with him you should just outright ask him upfront about it.atleast you will stop leading your life in "what if" mode and would be sure of things if that even means he not wanting to be with you.if he really likes you and he s a little shy you should shed ur inhibitions and just ask him out.atleast by the end you would know where you belong or you could just move on.am sure there would be your soul mate somewhere who would just be wanting to have you totally and make u feel wanted every single minute.till then all my wishes with this guy.
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