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writes:MOD NOTE: OP's own title.Hi, first timer here...ok well, so I've been with this girl for a little over a year now and we're really in love, atleast I know I am and she says she is just the same, only when we take "breaks" they drag on in agony for me for too long...and she says it's just for a short while but it always takes longer than she says. During these breaks she always manages to find one other guy who she focuses her other 20% of attention on and...i get alot of attention from her but...when she's with the guy...well obviously it's hard to cope with and the one before this one actually made me want to strangle him at my knowing what was happening and my not being able to do anything about it :( I dont know what i can do to get her back because i've never done anything wrong to her, always treated her better than I would treat myself. And I'm not trying to sound like an angel, but I'm not exagerating...but I always end up being hurt or dissapointed or something after trying to be the best guy for her I can be to try and get her back....I really do love her so much...and dont want to lose her....but I dont know what to do anymore and...it's so depressing and frustrating :'( advice? comments? :'( they'll help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, you see, I've tried backing away from her to see if it'll work and well, I just dont have the strength to do so :( I feel pathetic but I can't leave her. How can I start to let go
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): to me it sounds like shes playin you. she wants her cake and eat it. from an outside point of view if you love someone then you try and make things work not keep going on breaks. why do you keep having breaks?? maybe back away from her. stop making all the effort with her, carry on with your life and she will soon miss you and least then youll really know if she loves you and if you do really love her
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