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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hii have alot of stretch marks! i have em on my stomach, on the sides of my upper body, on my lover back, shoulders and where my arms meet my body, both on front and back. and i am a guy!! they are almost invisible by now but it feels awful to touch.my first question is how big of a turn off is this for girls?and secondly do laser treatment or something improve the texture of em as well? visibility is not a real issue at this point since they are already faded but is there any way to make em feel better?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 If the woman cares about you she will not mind the stretch marks. If you want a woman who cares only for your looks, well she might mind. No, stretch marks are not pretty, and a one-night stander might find them odd, if they really do feel the way you describe them. But stretch marks are also natural and common. A girl will not care at all if a totally nice and cool guy, with a healthy body, has stretch marks. They play a minor factor in the total package.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Meh, I have them pretty bad on my lower back. I just tell anyone that sees them that I once dated a dominatrix or that they're tiger stripes, get a laugh and they're never commented on again.
Nobody who isn't a shallow cow gives a crap about them dude, don't let them hold you back aye.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 How do you feel about stretch marks on a girl.... that's how women will feel about you...
Stop worrying, little marks aren't important, she's more worried about her small tits, her flat ass and you looking at porn, to see your physical flaws.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): I have them pretty severely too. Some are pretty deep and big.
No there is no treatment for removing them or changing their texture.
But most girl don't care, it's just one of those things some girls will find them a turn off but in my experience those girls are rare. You have to remember stretch marks are more common in women anyway. I have had 3 girlfriends that had stretch marks too. It's not a big deal. We all have physical flaws and blemishes and in my experience most girls I've been with were more worried about how I felt about theirs.
I've never once met a girl that openly told me she found them a turn off. My current girlfriend loves running her fingers over them for some reason, she finds them fascinating to touch.
One thing I will say though, my stretch marks came about because of rapid weight gain, my body is naturally very skinny when I put on weight I got stretch marks. If you're over weight and have them they're more likely to be a turn off because you have excess weight and stretch marks. I lost all that weight and gained muscle instead. That way for me at least they seem more focused on my six pack and musculature than any blemishes.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 I think most people have stretch marks and almost everyone I know, including me, use Bio oil. I think it's available globally and although it was a little pricey for me (€30), it is so worth it.
good luck
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