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writes:I have a major issue with an adult figure.Who doesn't, except mine are my to-be in-laws...I moved in over a year ago with my bf and his parents, and after being here for 10 months things were alright. Then we went to another state and stayed with my parents for 5 months. We just got back about a month ago to his parents house and they have been acting weird. His mom is super bitchy, she didn't even seem to be happy for us to be back the second day we were back! She complains, says we do nothing. I just got a job because I just got a car (finances from my father). I am only 19 so please don't think I am a 30 year old free loader... I am trying super hard to make everything right but I feel like it just won't ever be the same, like before we left. My bf is 24... and I know a lot of people would see that he still living at home and see that bad, but we were all raised differently and this was something I personally accepted when we first started dating 2 years ago. Well his mom started getting cocky about us moving out so when I started getting ideas of how much money it would cost, she started getting pissy about it... like I was unhappy or ungreatful. I have written her many letters and cards since I have been with my bf, all telling her how appreciative I am and thankful. Its gotten to the point that there is 1 bathroom and 4 adults that need to shower and work... so the past week or so my bf and I have resorted to bathing in the waterfall a mile or so from our house... Its not too bad, its pretty private location, but the water is from the mountian so its cold... And fall is just around the corner now. Today for the first time in 2 weeks I took a shower at the house, and his dad told me "House rules, 10 min max." And that was never the case before... So I dont know what is going on these days, but i feel very cheated out of being a person... HELP PLEASE!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Can't you and your boyfriend save as much as you can and move out as soon as you can, - so that you can shower as long as you want ?
I know you are only 19 and this is very young, but if you are old enough to go live with a man- then you are old enough to go live with him alone- without the in-laws !
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (4 September 2010):
 They are jealous because you left them and went to see your mother.. they are also missing you both already. They don't want you to move out, they think they will loose their son.
lol.. crazy ain't it.. they don't want you to go, so they make you unhappy enough that you can't stay.. human's are funny that way... it's their way of saying how much they will miss you once you are gone.
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