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writes:HelloIm 14 years old I Met this 17 year old and i really like him but he has a girlfriend Hes been with her for nearly 2 years,My mum and dad are really really protective and wont even let me hang aroung with him my dad even rang him! and told him its wrong for a 17 year old wanting to hang around with 14 year olds even i think my dads in the wrong but am i the one in the wrong? im really close with this 17 year old and were always flirty and he tells me he can trust me and that he can talk to me about anythin and i feel the same way,my bestfriend thinks he likes me back.But i can never seen him cause my mum and dad,and i really really like him and can never stop thinking about him,What should i doo? Pleasee help mee im really stuck on what to do.Thank you x
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reader, ashbash09  +, writes (5 September 2010):
hi i do think its wrong for you to fancy a 17 year old your only 14 2 of yous are 3 years appart it doesnt seem right. i know you might have feelings for her but tbh your better of moving on and try and get some one yer own age and not some one older you dont want people slagging you off because your going with a 17 year old pal. just be strong and move on and just say to her i dont think its right for us to like one another in that way but can we pretend this doesnt excist and move on and just act like were cousins and move on, and see when your not look a bet all the wee girls your age will be wanting to be ure gf you can do it just belive in yerself
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reader, TEAMO +, writes (4 September 2010):
TEAMO is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you,i agree with you.My Mum is 46 and my dad is 50!so that's 4 years diffrence!I dont get how they think im in the wrong,but they arnt.And i wont do anything silly, i understand hes over 16 and im under :)But the only thing is he has a girlfriend , He said he thinks he loves her but he dont know,cause he thinks hes justt scared to be single, so what should i do? x
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reader, iloveyhoo +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Well 14 and 17 aint that big of an age gap. 3 years! Its like you saying its wrong fore a 28 year old to go out with a 25 year old. How old are your parents? If they have an age gap which is of 3years or more, explain that to them. How old were they when they met? They can't really be hypocrites to you, but find out the facts first. In my opinion I don't think its wrong, I think you shuld go for it. But just don't forget hes over 16 and your not, don't do ntohing silly like have sex with him, not til your atleast 16, because he can get into trouble and its not worth it. Good luck with whatever you do.
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