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female
age
26-29,
*andyCurves
writes:I've hit a dead end.After a few attempts of getting guys that I've liked in the past to like me back or to simply ask me out, I've given up!For some reason I attract desperate, needy, sexually frustrated or awkward guys. Guys that I'm just not that into!I've never had a boyfriend before and Im not that bothered I guess (even though sometimes I feel pressured by others around me and by myself). But I try focus on more important things at my age(I am 15 by the way).But the little effort I make to the opposite sex is just not working. I tend to lead the wrong type of guys on. Some of them I can tell are just interested in sex. Others just want a crazy emotional attachment!And the ones that I find myself attracted to or I like are NEVER! I repeat NEVER interested in me.They either pretend to like me to get sex or just simply reject me and go for some next girl with no personality.Am I doing something wrong? I dont want to let myself go like other girls who just spread their legs( they always pull) and I'm also not up for a game of mixed signals either.What am I doing wrong, Im sick of attracting pervs and needy boys. And Im sick of being single!PLEASE HELP!Thanks!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (5 September 2010):
 "Guys can tell when you're 'searching' and that means that usually the also desperate ones or the players who want to manipulate you for sex take a pass at you"
Very very true Maverick..
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reader, maverick494  +, writes (5 September 2010):
I think it's the need for a boyfriend that attracts the wrong people. Guys can tell when you're 'searching' and that means that usually the also desperate ones or the players who want to manipulate you for sex take a pass at you.
So stop putting an exclamation point above your head and calm down. You're still young, no need to rush! Once you realize you've got all the time in the world to find the right guy and just be yourself and show that you don't necessarily need a bf, other people will warm up to you.
Trust me, if you seem desperate potentially interesting guys will avoid you. So relax and let it happen.
P.s. don't we all want what we don't get? I lost count of the guys I was into that either had a gf or weren't interested. Happens to us all.
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reader, Meee666 +, writes (5 September 2010):
Maybe you should get to know a guy a little better before making judgements on their personality. You never know, you might find you actually like one of these desperate needy guys ;)
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