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writes:Im 20 and my gf is 16, yea yea some of you think thats wrong. But i dont plan on having sex with her anytime soon, im in it for a relationship. We have been dating for 2 months now and we have a good relationship and we love each other. But sometimes i feel like shes holding some of her feelings back. Like i feel as tho if i dont txt her or call her then she wont txt or call me. and when i try and be sweet to her sometimes she wont respond in the same manner and then i just feel stupid. i also have this problem that if just one small thing seems out of place between us then i instantly become paranoid and start worrying. she does call me cute nicknames everyday and she tells me she loves me everyday but i just feel that there is something missing. Is she holding back or am i just overthinking this way too much? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sensativeguy010 +, writes (25 October 2010):
Sensativeguy010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell we went and saw a movie, everything went pretty good, we laughed, joked, held hands, enjoyed the movie. But she didnt seem to thrilled to txt me later on, so i still get a vibe that theres sumthing wrong..
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reader, suitcase  +, writes (24 October 2010):
 hay no worries
chills
girls act like this
specially teenagers
time will solve it
you just arrange a date with her
K???
tell me the progress i'lll guide you through
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reader, Sensativeguy010 +, writes (23 October 2010):
Sensativeguy010 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell it got worse, she was supposed to spend the night fri night, and she was all excited the day before. and so when i asked her about it on fri she said she didnt think she couldnt make it and that she gets a weird feeling, and would be uncomfortable for her. so i asked if everything was ok between us and she said "yeah, idk ive just been feeling wierd lately, and didnt know how to explain it" so i asked if she was unsure if she loved me. and she said "No i do love you, It's just you want such a serious relationship. it seems like you want to put a ring on my finger. im really not ready for that." and so i asked her when have i ever implied that and she gave a couple reasons and i told her the meaning behind those reasons, then proceeded to telling her that ill give her some space and that when she feels is good she can contact me. So 10 hours later at 1:22 sat morning she txts me "Babe, i cannot go to bed without saying goodnight to you. My head is just going crazy. Iknow im confusing. Im just as confused as you are. I do love you, i know that. Thank you for the space. i really need it. I'll txt you some time tomorrow. Please get some sleep. I probably wont. I love you." so im now uncertain at where i stand in this relationship :/
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reader, suitcase +, writes (21 October 2010):
it'll wipe out dude
they are like that in the first place but it'll change
be personal with her
and tell her how you feel
she'll help you out mate
talking do the job
:)
good luck
feed me with new news
i'll give some more tips
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