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anonymous
writes:Hi all. I've had a female friend in my life for about 2 years. We're both adults, well beyond teenage years. In the last 6 months, we've become much closer with one another and have a very deep, meaningful friendship. She means the world to me, and I am so glad that this deeper connection has materialized. I can honestly say I've never met anyone like her, nor have I had such a connection with someone like this in my life. Sbe's not one to trust people easily, so I really value her friendship. To further complicate things, we have been intimate, though we have not been with each other in that way in about a year and a half. It was never anything serious with us before, it was mainly physical. As mentioned, we've become much closer friends during recent months. Lately, she's been asking me certain questions, such as when can she hang out with some of my friends, when she can meet my parents, even why my last relationship ended. I could really use some assistance as to what those questions really mean. To me, those are all "I want a relationship with you" type questions, though I understand that this can be different for everyone. I do not want to jeopardize the friendship by bringing this up and risk embarassing myself, or her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Just something to add to the above. Back several months ago, as we started getting closer, I made the presumption that things might be progressing towards a relationship, and it came up during a talk we had. She said that she didn't mean to give me false signals, and that she considered me a close friend. Now its many months later, and the above questions are being asked.
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