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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Is my boyfriend not interested? We met three weeks ago for a date and weve been going out for only three weeks. He called me every day that one and a half weeks then he works because hes a roofer. Well now he doesn't call every day which i don't care about. The only problem is that he doesn't seem to make an effort to see me. If he loves me like he says which i don't believe, then why wont he come over. he has met my dad on our first date and was very nervous. But it all went good. I told my boyfriend too many times that my dad would pick him up and bring him to our house but he ignores it. he doesn't have his license and my parents don't want me to make an effort to see him all the time. I don't trust this guy and hes making it hard for me to not believe that he will love me forever cause i know thats not true. My BF is still a stranger to me. I want to give him a shot but if we still don't see each other than talking is all i have. Its normal for a boyfriend to not talk to you every day right? So my BF said we should get together and go to the mall near his house but we have to bring a friend and my friends are either busy or dealing with her car accident and cant leave her house. I really would go up there to see him but i dont have a friend. Reply to this Question
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (20 July 2010):
You have only been dating for three weeks and you talk about your boyfriend loving you forever, this is way to serious for such a new relationship and maybe you are asking way to much from someone you have only been dating for three weeks.
Relationships take time and they dont need to be rushed, let him chase you a little otherwise you will deffinitly come across as needy.
It is normaly not to see eachother every night and on a new relationship it is normal not to talk every night but he should still want to see you.
If he is giving you the cold sholder then accept he probably isnt that into you and the little rush of a new relationship has passed.
if he is making the effort then thats great and I hope things work out for you.
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