A
male
age
36-40,
*oboaxe
writes:Hello everybody, So on Saturday my friends and I went out to a bar. I met a girl (29) and we talked for about 40 mins, danced a bit, and I ended up getting her number. She left shortly after that. Later in the night I also met another girl (22, my age), who I talked to for about 30 mins, and I got her number as well. Now here is my question. What is the most effective way to pursue these girls? What I did the last time I met someone was wait for 2 days, and I called. She didn't answer, so I waited about 3 more days and called. She didn't answer, so I sent her a text message. Still nothing. I obviously gave up on her, since she displayed no interest. So I was just wondering if my methods were okay, and that previous girl just didn't really like me. In other words, I am planning on calling them tomorrow, and if they don't answer, calling them again the following day, and if they still don't answer, I'll send a text message. Or are voice messages good? Or should I send a text the first time? As you can tell, I am kind of clueless in the bar flirting world, as I just recently graduated and basically dated girls in my classes. Any help would be appreciated, Thank you!
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reader, SharksTooth  +, writes (7 November 2010):
Some people aren't comfortable with answering calls from people they don't really know or to be fair may not remember very well (as you met them when you were at a bar)
Maybe best way to go about it is sending a text first and if she doesn't answer leave it a week or so, if she fails the second time just stop. Don't hassle.
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