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*amu77
writes:Here's the story:I confessed my love for this guy and he told me he felt the same. He didn't make any first move so I asked him out first. And it went okay. Eventually we went out a second time but it was always me, making the first moves like holding hands/kissing etc. So I thought: It's okay,he's just really shy.But when we were supposed to go out again he stood me up, not letting know anything at all. And he only came with an excuse (having to work and busy at home with his upcoming birthday that night) some days after, instead of right away. But I forgave him, and he asked if we could go out again...And... he stood me up again.. not giving any word what so ever. Only coming with an apology when he happened to bump into me at the mall the next day...But,I love him a lot so I forgave him again... After that, he was going on a holiday with his family abroad and would be away for 3 weeks. He came back some days ago and I visited his house with a love letter.. I ended up handing it to his mother for him since he wasn't at home...But in the letter I also asked him to contact me.. but I haven't heard from him since nor have I seen him.So.. he has never called me, texed me only 1 time in almost 3 months after we started seeing each other and I always thought I could handle it...But now I'm freaking out.. what does he actually want?He's my boyfriend but he's more like a distant classmate that I rarely get to see. And he doesn't even live far from my house...!So my question is: Should I give up waiting and waiting for a sign of contact and break it all of with him?
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reader, ramu77 +, writes (21 July 2010):
ramu77 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for the answer.I wish it wouldn't go like this.But you're right and I am gonna tell him it's over if he keeps acting like this.Moving on is the best thing,I see that now.Thank you!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 No sweetheart,please get a grip.Enough is enough. He stood you up twice and ignored your letter. In 3 months he never called you, and texted you once.
What does he want from you ? Nothing. He wants you out of his life , he is too coward to tell you and he hopes you got the hint.
It's really, really time to move on, and the next time, make sure you are not the one who is doing all the chasing- let the boy chase you.
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