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female
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30-35,
*eather016
writes:What do you do to maintain a relationship? To make sure the feeling doesn't fade and keep it interesting? What both parties should do? What should I do, on my part? What are the secrets to you relationship? And what if, he's working miles away and you don't get to meet him very often? Thank you... Reply to this Question
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reader, Alwayswondering  +, writes (29 October 2010):
It's psychological. You lose the "lovey-dovey" feeling after about a year. BUT, people do things with one another (i.e. dates, presents, surprises, etc)to make the partner happy. That is to say, it's not ALWAYS material objects. Could be having a really good/romantic conversation or just sharing a passionate kiss. Just be yourself. She will already accept you for who you are, which is how it should be. If she wants you to change, then she does not love "you" but who she "wants" you to become. Furthermore, there is no "standardization" of relationships. What might work for one person, may destroy the relationship of another. If you don't get to see your lover that often, make the most out of the time you guys spend together. I hope I helped.
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