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Is it a bad idea to pursue anything with her because we work together?

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Question - (20 July 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 July 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I recently started a job editing for a film production company and there is this girl who I'm working with that I think might like me. I immediately noticed her and I find her very attractive. The other day we were working together and had lots of free time because we had to let the computer process a lot of the footage and there wasn't anything we could do until it was done. We ended up talking for quite a while and we seemed to hit it off. I got the feeling that there was some mutual attraction there and she seems really great. In the course of discussing vacation plans for the summer she mentioned how she had gone to California a few weeks back with her sister and her sister's bf. I made a comment asking if that was a "3rd wheel" situation for her and she said that it was nice to get away because she had broken up with her boyfriend a couple weeks before that.

Today I get back home and find she friend requested me on facebook and I'm not friends with anyone else at work except our boss. I know that I'm stretching things but we just seemed to have a good vibe. Mostly I'm wondering what you think the odds are that she likes me and if it's a bad idea to pursue anything since we work together. What do you think?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010):

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At this point I'm pretty sure that she does like me. Besides the fact that I checked and I'm the only person at work other than our boss who she is fb friends with. Also when I was at work yesterday my boss mentioned her and then immediately said to me "I think she likes you." He said he saw her staring at me a few times and that he thinks she likes me. I'm hoping that's the case because tomorrow we all have a film shoot to go to and our boss told me that he said to everyone to be free for a certain time period but he doesn't expect it to go that long. I figure that since I know she will probably have a little bit of free time afterward that maybe I'll ask her to get a cup of coffee when we're done. So I'll see how that goes and if you're still interested I'll keep you posted.

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