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writes:Me and this guy broke up in march i'm still not over him - we were together over a year, he was seeing other girls whilst he was with me i found out, i then ended it. I still think about him every day, and i'm starting to think maybe i fell in love. i can't forget him its just too hard ive tried everything, dating again seems impossible i just don't feel the same spark i do with him with anyone else.So i saw a photo of him on myspace with his arm around someone i presume is his girlfriend. I know hes in a relationship or seeing someone because he is always writing loved up things on facebook. Truth is its killing me the thought of him with someone else. I don't even know her but i DETEST her just because shes with him. I don't know what to do, i hate the way hes moved on so easily and i'm still thinking about him. I can't take this anymore. I'm depressed all the time and constantly in a bad mood. I'm starting too sound like a crazy ex-which i find totally horrifying. i know i sound so pathetic,this is truly me talking straight from my heart right now. I never talk about how i feel he has no idea i feel. Hes moved on hes really fallen for this new girl theres nothing left for me and him so why am i still thinking about him??
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (21 July 2010):
 Stop being mad at his new girl, it's not her fault you fell for a prick.
He moved on so easily because he is a shallow bastard. Be glad he is gone, if he hadn't cheated on you with one girl it would have been another. LEARN from this "mistake" (that being him) and don't date losers like him again.
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reader, Rubix +, writes (21 July 2010):
It's perfectly natural to still be thinking of him hun. You were together for a while so those feelings aren't simply going to go away. When you break up from a long relationship it is difficult because you start to question everything and over analysis everything.It's perfectly normal to hate the girl you see him with and to question why he's seeing someone so quickly. Some people deal with things differently and this could be a way that he feels is better to deal with things, throwing himself back into it all. The best thing you can do is to surround yourself with good friends and honestly try not to think about him. Sounds stupid i know but if he's changed, which it sounds like he has done you can hold onto the fact that he's no longer the person you wanted to be with in the first place.You simply don't deserve to have a guy treat you this way and although this is unoriginal, it's just going to take time, however you'll get through it and you'll be a stronger person because of it. Don't let him win, you'll be fine and you'll get through it :)Take care xx
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