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*eartbroken94
writes:ok so during this school year i met this girl first semestre that i really liked. But i blew a couple oppurtunities to ask her out and now we dont talk. So then, move on and next semestre i meet this really pretty girl who wasn't single first semestre. I talked to her alot but originally did not have any legit feelings for her cuz i thot she already had a boy friend. But i would later find out that she was single. She always flirted with me, and like always drew on my papers. one time she even drew a heart on my paper and wrote her name + my name inside that heart. So then i really start to fall with this girl, and i knew i was falling in love. Then i ask her to the movies and also decide to tell her how i like her. She then says that she thinks of me as just a friend. But how does any of this make sense at all??!? Why is she flirting with me so much, and drawing hearts and $hit on my paper if she just wants to be friends. She just toyed with my heart and how do i get over this, or is it even possibly to wait it out, and build a real boyfriend-girlfriend relationship out of this? im so lost and confused...
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reader, evildrspock +, writes (6 November 2010):
 If she tells you you're just friends, she probably doesn't want a relationship with you.
But, all that said, and I'm speaking from experience here, if it's important to you, don't give up. Persistence can pay off, and people's feelings do change.
Young people often don't even know what they want, so she may not have sorted things out for herself yet, anyways. Just try to keep things light, and not get go heavy on yourself and her with feelings ... it can be difficult, but it won't help you, her or the relationship.
Then again, if it's too painful, a friendship may not be possible. It's up to you.
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