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writes:hi all i have a bit of a bizarre problem, i just need some opinions on this. im 25 weeks pregnant and happily living with my partner. since i became pregnant, my partners 16 year old brother has been acting strange towards me. at first i thought he was just excited that i was going to have his niece or nephew but its got more disturbing.he started off just hugging me a lot more (i dont have a problem with this within reason)but when i developed my bump he began stroking it all the time, he then sent me a facebook message telling me he thought i looked sexy and cute with my bump. when he and his twin sister came to stay at my home for the weekend (they do this every few weeks)i went for a lie down and woke up to find him next to me obviously aroused stroking my belly again. when i asked him what he was doing in my room he jumped up awkwardly and said he was wondering if i wanted a cuppa!?!? a few days later he then "accidentally" sent me porn involving pregnant women but then apologised saying his friend did it.should i tell my partner whose very stressed about work or is it just a teenage boys hormones going mad. should i confront the brother? and what the hell do i say in such an awkward situation.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 July 2010):
It would appear as if his brother has a fetish for pregnant women, which could very well be a hormone related problem. I think you need to make it clear to him that he is overstepping the mark, and that it is causing you stress. I wouldn't say anything to your partner just yet. Be gentle, and just say that you feel he is getting a little to close and it's causing you and your baby stress. If he continues after that, then tell your partner.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 July 2010):
 What about leaving your partner out of it in round one and have a chat with the brother first? Tell him you don't like his behaviour towards you and want him to stop. Tell him you don't want him touching your belly. It is your body after all, not public property for heavens sake.. he has no right to fondle you.
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