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writes:Hello guys!!I have a question:I went out on a date with a guy I met at my college. At first I didn't even want to go out with him although i liked hiom because I had a huge crush on someone else.But when we went out I had an amazing time with him. it felt like we knew each other for months..after like three hours we were out he kissed me..we had really good chemistry and we ended hooking up and i gave him a bj..now im worrying about what he'll think of me? are there any possibilities he 'll think i'm too easy and won't want a serious relationship?NOTE that before kissng and hooking up and all that we talked about relationships and he told me that he believes in having a good time with the other person in the begging and as time passes to decided whether to form a relationship or not.Please help guys!!! and sorry my post was so long!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 January 2010):
Just play a bit harder to get next time. Make sure you both get to know each other. If he suddenly turns and runs or something, then he wasn't good enough in the first place.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (26 January 2010):
 Well, not all guys are the same. If it makes you feel any better, I later ended up getting married to two young women (different times of course) with whom I had sex on our first dates. Granted, both marriages eventually ended, but the demise had nothing to do with what we had done sexually our first nights. One marriage lasted 20 years.
So, your new boyfriend may accept the gesture without prejudice, or maybe he will think it too fast and easy. Time will tell. If that was the first time you've been so readily accommodating, then tell him, but be truthful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2010): honestly from a guy yes it does make you a lil cheap n easy 2 get! i mean you need to play hard to get sometimes. we guys believe that the longer it takes to get her wel its got to be worth it. im sure hes probably thinking u do dis al the time whch im sure he wont tel you because he stil wants 2 get laid. sory 4 being so harsh but its jst the way it is
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