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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. However recently I have been having feelings for another guy. I kissed him and find myself thinking about him, but I love my boyfriend. What do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all the helpful advice everyone. I am greatful I was able to get a male perspective!
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reader, steph007  +, writes (20 December 2010):
Tell your boyfriend that now you need some space. Do not leave him, but make yourself more free than you are/feel now.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (20 December 2010):
I personally think that this is a sign for you to move on. True love is when temptation is there but you don't act on it, because you love and respect your partner enough not to do it. And you gave into the temptation. Maybe you do love your boyfriend, but you were willing to break the bond and cheat, and that means that there isn't enough real respect there.
You're a young woman, and you have plenty of time to find the right guy. Go and have fun, and be single. Don't drag your boyfriend along, or later on it'll come out that you're a cheat and you'll get a bad reputation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): Been there, done that. For me I felt immediately guilty after the fact. I couldn't even believe that I had done such a thing because I do love my boyfriend. For me it just felt like him and I were'nt on the same page anymore and this other guy was so I would think about him a lot and found myself attracted to him. What did u feel after you kissed this other guy? Do u know why u find yourself thinking about him?
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reader, answerlessdreams +, writes (20 December 2010):
If you love him, drop the guy on the side. It will only lead to more confusing feelings and can end up in break up with your current boyfriend.I speak from experience with one of my ex's.Best of luck!
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reader, coltonbanks +, writes (20 December 2010):
You need to be honest with him. Don't lead your bf on. I'm going through that right now, my ex gf went on a date with another guy, but she said she loved me that night when i saw them out. Honesty is the best policy, if you do love your bf the way you say you do, the least you could is be honest, he deserves it.
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