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writes:I talked to a girl for 3 months. Fell in love. I asked her out 1.5 months after meeting. She had a bf but they broke up 2 weeks later. We finally went 'out' (i dunno if it was a date) but I didn't make a move. I thought I messed up but we talked till 1 AM a day after as usual. Yesterday I gave her a mix cd and inside put a note saying I liked her and if she liked me back, to text me what she thought about the cd. If she didnt feel the same way, I told her it was a real pleasure meeting her. I havent heard from her. However all yesterday and today she's put up depressing fb statuses. I can't help but notice some sound angry. Was it me? What could have happened?
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reader, btj +, writes (20 December 2010):
btj is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everybody. have a merry christmas y'all!
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (19 December 2010):
 No it's not you man. She is just not interested, that's what my experience tells me. Sorry...
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Also a little tip: Don't do that again my friend, bad policy to go tell a girl straight forward "Hi I like you!" Usually this type of honesty never works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): no it isnt what you did she is mad at herself... maybe for making you think you like her maybe she doesnt like you back maybe she isnt ready for a relationship give her a little bit of time and then try talking to her again
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reader, honest_human  +, writes (19 December 2010):
Mixed CD... How cheesy.
Define Date - there're really no such thing if you think about it.
It's just two people meeting up, spending time and getting to know each other. So hanging out really. Theres no difference.
And FB doesn't mean anything, it's a waste of life.
Basically what I'm saying is:
1. Relax
2. Like you said, if she doesnt like you, it was nice meeting her. over.
3. carry on with you life
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