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writes: A girl i have gone to school with since i was 12 has recently become single. shes always had a thing for my bf of a year and they had a 'thing' a couple years before me and him got together.my bf was out the other night and he told me that they got chatting for a while and she ended up telling him how shes newly single etc.when he was telling me this he also said that shes clearly really 'cock hungry'.i didnt ask how or anything, which im kicking myself about now, cause i have a feeling she must have hinted something to him about wanting him and his cock?i know its good he told me but im also wondering the only reason he told me is because he knew people would see them talking and it would get back to me.i know it sounds pathetic but i dont feel comfortable with them talking, especially as she has a history of seducing taken men. i dont really know how i should feel about this? is it stupid of me to feel weird and jealous or should i just trust my bf and know that they didnt exchange numbers or that this wont go any further than flirting?
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (21 December 2010):
 You are welcome and Happy Christmas to you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you both so much for replying, i do feel alot better after reading your replies. and im not going to worry about it, it was good of him to be open and tell me about it. thank you !!!!
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reader, Myrrh +, writes (20 December 2010):
Hi. Your worry doesnt sound pathetic. If its something that bothers you then it isnt pathetic. Id probably feel the same if my partner came home and told me his old flame is single now and out there 'looking'. My first thought would be that she can look somewhere else then!
Its good that he told you. He could have just left it and hoped you didnt find out. Thats what he would have done if he was being shady. So i dont think you have to worry about his loyalty.
He also told you shes looking. I dont think he would have told you either if he had any thoughts about hooking up with her. He doesnt sound at all interested in her.
If i were you. Id just ask that he doesnt spend any time in her company when hes out. Tell him its worried you slightly thats shes on the prowl. If hes a decent guy he will understand and give her a wide berth.
If shes making it THAT obvious that shes on the look out for a guy, she will probably find someone very soon. So try not to worry too much. All the best.
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