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Is she just being friendly or is there more to it?

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Question - (19 December 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi all,

nearly 22 year old male and never been on a date etc. A few nights ago I went out with my coursemates including this girl I didn't know very well. This girl and I got on pretty well. She asked me to dance with her (I refused at first as I cannot dance) but she insisted. She then invited me back to her place with her friends and she wrapped her arm around mine. She then later said how I should go out with her and her friends more.

Are these signs that she might like me or is she just being friendly?

BTW I really like her.

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A male reader, rivi United States +, writes (19 December 2010):

She's gone as far as a girl can reasonably do without actually undoing your belt and unzipping your pants.

Get in there quick before she changes her mind or concludes you are either boring or gay.

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A male reader, honest_human United Kingdom +, writes (19 December 2010):

If what you say did happen, without you twisting small parts of what happened. Then Yes, she does like you. If you twisted things or left things out, as in she held other peoples arms at the same time. You're just cheating yourself. Only you know.

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A female reader, preciouscrash United States +, writes (19 December 2010):

It seems this girl may be interested but do not throw your heart on your sleeve yet. Proceed with caution. Go in with an open mind that she may very well be into you but just know younger females (I'm assuming she's younger)can change their tune fast. Be open, be cautious and you won't end up with a broken heart.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (19 December 2010):

dirtball agony auntSigns of both. If you like her, ask her out. No point in waiting! Good luck.

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A male reader, Shadow_Phathom_of_the_Opera United States +, writes (19 December 2010):

Shadow_Phathom_of_the_Opera agony auntI have a single thing to say.

Her body language (as I've read into it) conveys she is really into you. I'd recommended to ask HER out somewhere for fun, rather than her to ask you out. However, location IS KEY. If she's somewhere where she's not going to have fun, then don't expect to hear back from her anytime soon.

Honestly, I don't know the rest. Just wait for more answers to pop up here, there are bound to be people more qualified at answering this question then I ever will be.

However, good luck.

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A female reader, candy253 United States +, writes (19 December 2010):

DEFINETELY signs of being friendly :) but i wouldnt get hopes up into turning into something as serious as you may want it to be. she seems quite interested in your company as a person maybe possibly more than a friend depending on how compatible you two really are. take it slow and dont come off strong its usually a ugly turn off and wtf? feeling. be kind and try not to clingy

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