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*aptainfudge
writes:I know this is probably a very asked question but i need to know what did it mean. i went to school with this guy for a year and all he did was stare at me but never talked to me. he was polite to say hi and that which was good but was there something more to it. i got dirty looks off one of his close friends who is a girl for a while. this starin went on for months. my friends said it to me too often that he was looking at me again and again. i recently discovered that anytime i log onto facebook he logs off as we are friends on it. now we are on holidays and i found out that he just got into a relationship wit another girl we went to school wit though they hardly talked. i honestly would like to know what was his starin about and his weird behaviour for?
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reader, captainfudge +, writes (10 August 2010):
captainfudge is verified as being by the original poster of the question i am sorry to tell people people who say he was into me but some of my friends said he was creepy the way he stared and didnt say a woird. not even a "hi" wass ever mentioned. if he had said a word i could have maybe had interest in him. if a guy doesnt express himself more how are girls supposed to know they are interested?
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (9 August 2010):
 ... He liked you, but he got no indication from you that you were interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): All the other answer are on point, not sure if you heard the expression "you snooze, you lose", that what happen, the guy liked you which was obvious.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): I am not going to pretend to know about your lovely staring guy, but instead I will tell you a stroy about myself...and maybe he is like me.
I used to stare at a most gorgeous guy (D) all the time. I am sure he noticed, and his friends. I couldn't help it. I was just so attracted to him. But I felt he was out of my league so I didn't ever dare to do anything about it. That year, on holidays my friend asked me if I would go out with another guy (S) in my class. It was mainly so she and I could double date as she was going out with his best friend. S was OK, so I said yes.
Just because I went out with S did not make me like D guy any less. I did notice that D was looking at me more, and he seemed to be missing my stares. One day he asked me out, and I jumped at the chance.
Maybe Your staring guy just didn't understand you were into him too?
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reader, La Sad Girl  +, writes (9 August 2010):
He liked you but probaly he thought you were to good for him &since yu never made a move to let him know yu like him bak"if yu do" he didnt even bother
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