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In love with someone 4x my age

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Question - (9 August 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 August 2010)
A female Canada age 26-29, *ananajclova writes:

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ok well I just started working at a job and my boss is really nice. I have worked there for about a month or so and I am really starting to like him but the major problem is that I'm 13 and he's 51...is that weird? I don't like him in a way that I want to have a relationship with him but I like him enough to have it distract me from my work. What should I do?

-in love with someone 38 years older than me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010):

Yea, I have to agree with the previous poster - you are NOT in love. You simply have an infatuation with this guy. It happens all the time in high school - girls like a certain teacher for this reason or that, but no one is foolish enough to actually consider having a relationship with them.

Open your eyes and realize you're 13 - school starts in less than a month.

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A female reader, OhGetReal United States +, writes (9 August 2010):

OhGetReal agony auntYou are not in love. You are infatuated. Do you have a father living at home with you? What is your relationship like with him? If you have a Dad, get closer to him and talk to him more, you are going to be vulnerable to the attentions of men if you don't get enough attention from your Dad.

This man as I am sure you know is inappropriate for you to have feelings of romantic attraction for. Get ahold of yourself, and why are you working at the age of 13?

Shouldn't you be enjoying your summer and getting ready for school?

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