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writes:me and my ex boyfriend dated for 18 months, but when summer came along i broke it off due to a fight we had. i didnt think it would be a "done of good" break up but, we are now on our third month apart and he does still call me. although, last week i was told that he had slept with someone else. of course i confronted him about it and he confessed. im hurt and i blew up when he told me it happend, today was my first time talking to him since i found out and he asked me to come over to his house. all my friends are telling me not to go back with him but i cant help to wonder if he slept with someone because hes over me , or that he just wanted sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): If he wasn't over you, he would have beat his meat instead of doing another girl. Get over it, the relationship is done. Cut him out of your life and move on.
Sorry for being blunt, it's just I see this kind of junk happen all the time and girls get hurt repeatedly and down the line blame men, even the good guys, for all their troubles.
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reader, Aunt Annie +, writes (9 August 2010):
I can totally see how this would make you feel! Grr, guys can be SO hard, trust me :)
If he really wanted you to stay, he wouldn't have told you the way he did. He would've left it for someone else to tell you.. Do you kinda sorta get where I'm coming from? Okay, he stuffed up, but that's okay because life didn't come with instructions!
It's hard, when something like that happens, it's happened to me too. BUT it is possible to bring your relationship happening again (if that's what you want). Perseverance is key! Remember that you guys HAVE broken up so I can slightly see where he's coming from. But still, 3 months? Come on!
I think the best way to sort it out, is to sit down with each other and talk! Make sure that you TALK and PROMISE each other NOT to scream or shout verbal abuse.
Good luck and I hope I helped! :)
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reader, Melltoo101  +, writes (9 August 2010):
 well what i can tel u from my expirnce is go to his place, friends always tel us not to go back i wonder why maybe 1of ur friend wants him, no 1 said love doesnt hurt it does less of the time every one goes through that its part of love. i think he slept with that some1 to get clousur, i myself did that once and if you going to allow him to sleep again with that some1 then call it quits. he still wants you just that you should make that move and want him back too. go b4 its too late.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): Do you want him back? Do you still love him? Does he still love you and want you back?
Then you have to ask yourself if you can fully forget about it... after all it happened when you two were apart. If you get back together you must accept it and leave the issue alone.
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