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writes:I called this guy i really care about. I was in town,and wanted 2 see if we could hang out. He says what happen 2 letting me know your coming ahead of time? He says u gotta let me know. I normally let him know. I text him,and tried talking him into hanging out again. He didn't reply back. I'm not happy about me doing this. i know it made me look desperate.I text him the next morning saying,sorry about last night it was wrong,just plzs don't be mad at me, i'll leave u alone now. He says,why would i be mad? I said, thought u got mad bc i kept asking u 2 come see me. I text him today and said hey. He didn't reply back. I text him 4 hours later asking u busy. He didn't reply back. I really wanna call him tomorrow and see what's up. I love him,and i don't wanna give up on him.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 July 2009):
Well if you are feeling bad for nagging at him then leave him alone and stop chasing him.
You still come across as some one who is a bit too desperate for this to work.
He has said he isn't mad. You are just going to come over as crazy if you keep chasing him.
Chill out and go out with your mates and stop obsessing.
Leave him to it and let him get to know the real you and not all your insecurities.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didn't mean i was here bc i didn't let him know i was coming 2 town in advance. I know that's not a big deal. I just feel bad bc after he told me he couldn't hang out i kept trying 2 get him 2.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 July 2009):
You have some serious self esteem issues. You are here over the fact that you forgot to text him in advance saying you were coming to town.
That is really really really not a big thing. Why are you acting as though you slapped his mum in the face?
If he is capable of making you feel THIS bad over such a tiny thing then either you are not capable of dealing with a relationship just yet.... or he is playing mind games to do you down.
Either way I think you need to sit and have a thing as to why you can't handle the tinyest mishap with someone you are dating.
Good Luck!! xx
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