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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating this guy for about a month after knowing him for a couple of months before that. Before meeting him, it's been a long time since I've done any dating so I'm out of practice at reading any signs and I'm not sure how much he's interested in me. Also, as a side issue, I don't like how I generally need a guy to feel like I fit in, for example, now this guy's friends are saying I should come hang out with them more, but I'd like to have my own social groups where I'm not just accepted because I'm with one of the group. But back to the main issue: figuring out how this guy feels about me. I'm really attracted to him and I'd like to get to know him more. When we see each other we have a lot of fun but haven't had any big conversations where you get to know the other person's perspective on various issues and the world, and some of their past experiences. He told me once that he really likes me, but I didn't say anything back (I'm slightly uncertain after a long term relationship which ended 8 months ago, and I don't want to rush into anything). He always tells me I look nice or that I'm the funniest/coolest person and said once that he was really nervous to come up and talk to me for the first time. We see each other once or twice a week, we've kissed a couple of times (I''ve never known a guy who, once he's kissed me once, doesn't try and do it at every available opportunity, so I'm not sure if that's a sign he's not that interested, or that he is and is taking it slow). Reply to this Question
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reader, laura585  +, writes (6 July 2009):
Well it sounds to me like he likes you and is just taking it slow? I'm no expert, though. Either way I say as long as you are having a good time and so is he there is no need to label and pinpoint each action. Have fun with it, it could end up being something great, or not- but it would be an experience. :)
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