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Should I wait for him to heal?

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Question - (6 July 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, *inkdiamonds03 writes:

?? How much is too much??

- my question is.. well i have this crush.. and he's absolutly wonderful. i like him alot and he likes me.. but!! he recently got out of a relationship (as did i) and he's well..(he says)kinda broken from it. but he loves hangin out with me and loves my company. when i stay over with him he calls them "slumber parties"(silly) but he states he loves holding me and i make him laugh. we havent been doing anything intimate b/c we wanna know each other first. well he told me he just needs time to heal?? and his relationship was about 7 months, but he did tell me that he thought she was the one he was gonna marry.. so obviously she meant alot to him which is why he's "broken" but he tells me all the time that he likes me alot alot.. so basically, im asking is.. how much time does he need? like estimating, and i know im not gonna wait like a dog but i do like him. so i guess i can seem like im not waiting but not really show it..? i been nothing but sincere and true to him showing him my true self and he likes me for me :)

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2009):

Starlights agony auntit depends how much he loved this other person, sometimes it takes someone years to get over a previous love, before they fall in love with someone else.

you need to take each day as it comes and be prepared to wait if u really want him more than a friend.

good luck!

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