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*xcbabiegal
writes:Dear cupid. About a year ago i wrote on here when i was thinking about getting back with my ex boyfriend. I did end up getting back with him. I have known him for 4 years now and we have been back together for 10 months. We are also engaged. Which is my problem. He lives in sweden and i live in the Uk. He has decided he's moving here when he is allowed to move out. which will not be until he is about 19 and he has only just turned 17 now. Though i love him very very much. The thought of marriage really scares me. i'm a very independant person and i have alot of dreams i want to fulfill before anything else. I know he's the one for me. But i'm still very scared at the thought of being his wife, no matter how much i actually like the idea. I seem to change my mind every now and again. sometimes i can be really excited about it, and want to look for dress's and venues and things like that but after a few days i get really scared again. What should I do? I dont want to tell him that i've changed my mind because i know at some point i do want to marry him. but i just don't like the thought of it at the moment.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (6 July 2009):
You are very very young to be thinking of marriage.I thought I was a bit young to marry doing it at 23!!I think the whole engagement thing for him was more a way to keep you both feeling secure in a long distance relationship.Next time you see him you just have to talk to him about how you want to have a very very long engagement.Good Luck!! xx
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