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male
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41-50,
*ober addiction
writes:hi i am in a separation with my wife we have 2 kids ,one she had with another guy before me but i have been there since her birth. i love them and i still love her. we have broke up before and in a matter a days she has found someone to date. one of the times, she moved a the guy in after 3 weeks or so after i left i had to find another place and after the guy basically tried to hurt her bd she ran to me for protection.she moved in and we were back together but her finding someone eally bothered me.i tried to keep it in the past but it came up in arguements so i obviously didnt let go of it. everytime break up i still have respect for her and love her but she always find someone so soon knowing its gonna hurt me. do get me wrong i do say mean things when im angry as well as her, i never cheated but i see the separations as time to think and fix, while she just move on. this time she has a computer friend which i wrongfully check. it sounds like real love and talks about me like im the baddest guy on earth. i read these and it really hurts me to the core where it hard to think or stand. i think if i can have time from seeing her i got a chance of getting over her but our the kids which makes the pain worst. keeps me from enjoying time with them, spend majority hugging trying to somehow heal my pain which i believe is selfish. i really want to work it out but its for good i believe cause i feel like i would the only one who would be trying while she waiting for me to mess up. we been though alot she says she loves me actions display different. she says she dont want to be with me so my question, finally, how do i get over her when i got to see the kids which means seeing her. making the pain start all over for me. ps and she is also pregnant. what should i do
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