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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's a friend of mine. We are so close it's unreal, and she told me she liked me. I fell in love with her, and we went out for a month. But then- Recently, she said she just was unhappy, she preferred it when we were friends, and she broke up with me after thinking this for about a week. I think I know why this happened. We don't know each other like loads... well... we only met in person a few times although being very close friends. (we use texts, phone and MSN a lot) of course I'm hurt and sad beyond belief, but I think this: We became very couple based at first, everything revolved around the relationship, and we changed slightly, not doing what we usually do and are like as friends. She didn't like this, but decided to end it thinking that's the best thing to do. We've talked quite a bit about it all, but not about what I think – about this theory...My question is: I want a second chance to prove to her that it can be how it was, being friends, but being a couple as well, I just want a chance to show her. I think she hastily ended it without giving me that chance, but I don't know how to show. Should I tell her straight out? If so, when, as soon as possible, wait a while, or... I don't know what to do. Please help. Surely I should have a chance at being happy too? I just want her back so bad. Thank you.
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reader, Darcy2uk +, writes (29 July 2009):
Think you need too get into the big world and not revolve everything around her.It looks like you like her far more than she does you.
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