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writes:I have a crush on a guy in my class. Everyone says he likes me but I don't know if it's true. There's a week left in school and I'm going to move soon. I want to tell him that I like him, but I'm kinda afraid. I need help ASAP. What can I do?theres this really cute guy in my class. i really want to befriend him. the thing is, ive never talked to him before. the girls in my class like to talk about who likes who. i cant just walk up to him and say hi because people will thing i like him.i dont want people tp start rumors about me. what can i do?MOD NOTE: Two questions from this person have been posted together as one.
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reader, uncle Frank  +, writes (18 July 2009):
 Yes! It is like the other answers have told you:
1. Go and speak to him. Tell him you like him and you speak to him now because your family is moving and you would like to be in contact afterward.
2. Don't worry about what other girls think or say: peer pressure is terrible, I know, but it will not help you to find a good friend or a husband.
Other girls will always criticize whatever you do. If you talk they will say you are forward, cheeky and the like. If you don't they will say you are chicken, yellow, worthless. What difference does it make what they say? Do what YOU want and your parents have taught you that it is not bad.
Lastly: I think you are too young to start a relationship, but you can start a friendship and see where it goes.
Our two adopted daughters will be you age in two years and I will have to help them the same way I help you now.
Our two daughters are bot married and with children.
I know a little bit about life and love and crushes.
I wish I had spoken to the girl I had a crush on in my class when I was 12 and even 18 as we went walking and eating ice cream together, but I never told her I loved her.
She married someone else and had his babies.
All the best, dear.
Let me know what happened when you write again.
Write to uncle Frank, Dear Cupid, if you wish.
Ciao for now
uncle Frank
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): When I was in grade 7 and 8 I liked this girl in my class and I think she liked me because at recess she would spin me around as she came running by me but I was too shy to do anything and so nothing ever happened.
Bearing in my that early experience and how shy I was I would say that if you feel he likes you you should make it a point to meet him one-on-one and tell him that you like him and that you want to do something together with him. Be blunt. Be forward. I think once you tell him that you like him in a low sweet voice he will tell you that he likes you too. Remember that the girl I liked never did get me to talk because I was too insecure to tell her anything even though she made it clear she liked me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2009): What do YOU want to do? What is more important to you? Talking to this guy, or what other people think?
I would say, be brave and go for it! What have you got to lose? If people talk, let them. Who cares what they say?
Like you said, it is the last week at school, and you will be moving soon. So you might regret it if you don't speak to him while you have the chance. And if he wasn't interested, or if it didn't go as you would have liked, well you won't have to see him around anyway, will you?
It's your choice, but if you feel brave enough to approach him, then good luck! I hope it goes well for you. x
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (17 July 2009):
 hmmm well if you like this guy go for it stop worrying about what those little girls say they sit around spreading rumors because they dont have man go talk to that boy before its to late. you can slip him a note too in his locker or something with your email adress tell him to email you etc good luck do what you want to do not what others opinions dictate
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